Dating Community

I Woke Up and Chose Chaos

Today I woke up and chose chaos. Specifically, chaos on dating apps. I’ve tried the “cool girl” approach. I’ve tried being emotionally available. I’ve tried crafting thoughtful, charming, well-balanced opening lines that say, *“I’m stable but fun. Quirky but grounded. Mysterious but... read more

Words for thought

If someone likes you, you won’t have to guess. Consistency, effort, and clarity matter more than words. One thing I wish people understood before dating is that love isn’t just about words or flirting it’s about showing up, being consistent, and matching energy. If someone truly cares, you... read more

Golden Pairs

I am new to Myers-Briggs, and learned there are such things as golden pairs, two types that are highly compatible. I'm an INTP, and my most compatible is supposedly INFJ. Anyone have luck dating your golden counterpart?

Take it easy ppl

I know for men when it comes to dating apps they're like a desert lol not many likes and a ton of mirages. And for the ladies it's like a needle in a haystack to find a decent guy. Just take it easy everyone. Work on yourselves and don't stop making attempts at relationships both romantic and... read more

Has any Infj found love online ?

I'm curious as our type is not suitable for shallow and instant matches at all. No wonder dating apps have so less Infjs. But has anyone had any luck in finding love online ?

Dating overseas

What yall think about matching/dating overseas? You think it’s doable? Or impossible? Or somewhere in between