Loneliness

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Hello, my fellow enneagram 4’s. I’m an INFP 4w5, and I have been repeatedly been told by people I get close to that I’m too cynical/negative.

This is extremely hurtful and makes me feel the impulse to hide away under my blankets so I can never be made to feel broken/rejected again.

Can anyone else relate? Would be nice to know I’m not alone in feeling this way.

SURYODAY · Accepted Answer

You don't met right person yet

Zuhier · Answer

No worries. Many other mbti person don't really understand us, the infps. But also, maybe we also should reflect as well. Im trying to do that. Reflect on the situation and see where I feel the need of me to be more understanding

Alex · Answer

Think it's really easy to fall into negativity and cynicism as a INFP 4w5. Hard to challenge that mindset but it's doable. I've been there and still work through it sometimes :)

Aleks · Answer

Oh, Hello there, fellow 4w5... there's nothing wrong being negative or cynical, looking at how things are going... it's totally fine...

Richard · Answer

Hey, Cassie.  I am also INFP/4w5 and also cynical/critical.  I think it's something you should reflect on and temper, but not something you should repress.  It puts a lot of people off, but people who know me well realize it's mostly rooted in a search for authenticity and balanced with empathy and good nature.  I know it can be painful.  Keep searching and don't compromise yourself with false positivity.

Loneliness

4w5 Community

You don't met right person yet

No worries. Many other mbti person don't really understand us, the infps. But also, maybe we also should reflect as well. Im trying to do that. Reflect on the situation and see where I feel the need of me to be more understanding

Think it's really easy to fall into negativity and cynicism as a INFP 4w5. Hard to challenge that mindset but it's doable. I've been there and still work through it sometimes :)

Oh, Hello there, fellow 4w5... there's nothing wrong being negative or cynical, looking at how things are going... it's totally fine...

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