Posted Monday, June 3, 2024
1y
INFP
Virgo
4
5
5Loneliness
Hello, my fellow enneagram 4’s. I’m an INFP 4w5, and I have been repeatedly been told by people I get close to that I’m too cynical/negative. This is extremely hurtful and makes me feel the impulse to hide away under my blankets so I can never be made to feel broken/rejected again. Can anyone else relate? Would be nice to know I’m not alone in feeling this way. (edited)
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Richard
1y
INFP
Leo
45
5Hey, Cassie. I am also INFP/4w5 and also cynical/critical. I think it's something you should reflect on and temper, but not something you should repress. It puts a lot of people off, but people who know me well realize it's mostly rooted in a search for authenticity and balanced with empathy and good nature. I know it can be painful. Keep searching and don't compromise yourself with false positivity.
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Natalie
3mo
INFJ
Virgo
45
5458 tritype INFJ here. Different people have different tolerances for incoming negative feelings or thoughts. Compatibility and emotional intelligence involves discerning who has an appetite for those conversations, and when. Adjust accordingly.
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BlackHoleder
2mo
INTP
45
5Me too it's also made me lost faith in myself and humanity Yet still craving for someone to understand me love me made me feel the love so I can get back and have faith in humanity again I tried to get out but it's often hurt so I always have to stay in my shell I am looking for someone to found me someone who is more dominant someone that feels clicked that we're made/live for each other Someone that might not even exists in this reality I hope that person found me before It's too late before I can no more 4w5 458
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