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Posted Sunday, May 29, 2022
1y
INFP
9s have to learn to repel sometimes
The undilluted 9 is a bit like vanilla ice cream, in that few people dislike it & it can easily, inoffensively blend into most other flavors. If we don't occasionally lean into our boundary-setting 8 wing, it can become overwhelming how much like shamans we innately are. And yet when healthy, 9s can become the most whole & inwardly content Enneatype... From there they can share the insights they've acquired & inspire others to attain inner peace. It's a vital gift that is often times very much taken for granted. And there's a part of 9s that at times prefers to be overlooked, & another part that hates it... Our core fear, though, is the prospect of disrupting the inner & outer peace+unity/bonds we've struggled set in place. Do watch out for their passive aggression, though. They have a hard time saying no, & that's where a lot of their resentments stem from. They're the one type that's probably truly selfless to a fault, & also needs to be encouraged to actively become aware of & integrate their anger in healthy, proactive ways. I'm still learning how to even recognize when I'm angry; it's like that part of me was broken in childhood. One has to know that it's there if they're to have any hope of sublimating it, & looking at an emotion wheel can really help. I was surprised to learn "frustration" is on the anger spectrum. I had no idea... (edited)
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This is what I've been reflecting upon myself over the past few months. I have a hard time saying no, can build up resentment because of my own actions or expectations, and am actively placing boundaries for myself to grow. Thanks for sharing your thoughts so elaborately. It's a breath of fresh air 🙏
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