When I observe you can’t carry or add to a conversation I’m out Tolerates rudeness from others I’m out Uses me as a distraction I’m out Aren’t mature or healed enough to be in a relationship I’m out Literally takes HOURS to respond I’m out Makes me apologize for something I have noooooooo business being sorry for I’m out You thinking being rude will elevate you as a person I’m out! I think that’s it. lol comment below what do you consider red flags 🚩 from your own experiences my friends let’s share and grow together or not lol

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Mark

4mo

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Honestly, people wouldn't have to heal from trauma if other people weren't so bad. That's why I just stay away from people in general haha I just assume people are walking red flags and keep my distance.

Hassan

4mo

ENTP

I just think that some people are normally too busy to respond within less than hours, i think a good relationship needs people with life and people with life can be busy sometimes too busy even, other times

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Aquarius

Agree ☺️

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Positivity

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Your presence is enough❤️

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Libra

3 Awards

Boredom Tips 👍🏽

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27d

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Pisces

Progress

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1 Award

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2 Awards

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Cancer

I think not only 7🤔

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Leo

I've started playing Stardew Valley, can you give me any tips or interesting facts or hidden tasks?

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Isla 🖤

22d

INFJ

Libra

💭

One day you will realize that the same person is not found twice in life. Not everyone is replaceable. Be careful who you hurt. In this fast-paced, ever-evolving world, we often take relationships for granted. We live in a culture that promotes moving on quickly, finding something or someone new... read more

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Dale Marcella

13d

INFJ

Aquarius

1 Award

7 TYPES OF PEOPLE TO AVOID

1. Wheelbarrow People: These individuals drain your energy and waste your time. They expect you to do everything for them without considering your needs. They are consumers of your energy, time, and resources. 2. Mosquito People: These people only want to extract benefits from you while injecting... read more

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ENFP

Aquarius

Never be afraid to walk away from a bad parent. Leave, before they ensure you become just like them.

#advice

Joshua

11d

ISFP

Virgo

Yes 1000% agree

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𝓗𝓸𝓷𝓮𝔂 👸🏾

INFJ

Libra

You'll Be Fine 🤗

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Ash

28d

INFP

What am I to post? Boring to post everyday to level up.

Do you have any suggestion to level up quickly? How long does it take to reach diamond level? #boo #advice #lifeadvice

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Bex

INTP

Leo

Pretty much 🤷

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S the Nosy Aunt 🦝✨️

20d

ISFP

I'm thinking to draft something about how to see less of thirst trap contents here.

But since this type of content is one of the "backbone" of this app, I want to see how many souls would want to read my suggestions?🤔 #boo #advice (edited)

Yes please post about it

No need

20 votes

I'm thinking to draft something about how to see less of thirst trap contents here.

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Tony

ENFP

Aquarius

Hair advice.

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Chozo

ESTP

Leo

I'm not too sure how to word this lol

Let's say you're an introvert, crazy I know lol, and you're interested in someone who's relatively outgoing. Wanting to spend time with them you start getting involved in some of their outdoor interests and you start to enjoy them and even do them when your person of interest isn't around. They... (edited) read more

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

Into the stillness I quietly fade, Where secrets are safe and heartaches are made A silent retreat from the world's loud din Where peace and calm, softly step in

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Aleksandra

19d

ENFP

Aries

Need advice or explanation

So I need someone to help explain something, i’m just so confused and heartbroken. I’ve been talking to this guy and it seemed amazing, we got along, our humour matched and turns out we used to go to the same sixth form and had similar acquaintances. We got along so well. Yesterday morning he... read more

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Maybe Fae

27d

ENFP

Aquarius

Things I consider RED FLAGS 🚩

Advice Community

Honestly, people wouldn't have to heal from trauma if other people weren't so bad. That's why I just stay away from people in general haha I just assume people are walking red flags and keep my distance.

I just think that some people are normally too busy to respond within less than hours, i think a good relationship needs people with life and people with life can be busy sometimes too busy even, other times

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A memory to bury, a heart to set free Why hold on to what's lost, a love that used to be Forever's just a dream, that's faded with the past Now I'm left to move on, and let love forever last

Important Life Lessons 📜👀

A soul once pure now tainted with pain the ones I loved brought only strain Their hurtful words, a wound that won't heal A heart that's broken, a love that's revealed

A portrait in my mind, a memory so bright Your image etched within a constant loving light How can i erase the heart, where you reside? When your memory is his solace, my constant guide.

Worst Dating Advice Ever!

With hearts that give and give, they often forget their own Their kindness leaves them lonely with a love that's overgrown Their selfless souls shine brightly, in the dark of night A gentle heart, that beats for others, but forgets its own light

Your memory, a persistent guest Finds me each day, with a new unrest It knows my whereabouts, my every place And brings with it a familiar haunting face

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Some wounds defy the passage of time Refusing to heal, a perpetual rhyme Centuries may fade, but scars remain A testament to pain that refuses to wane

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HONORING YOUR WORTHINESS...🥰😉💖✨️🌻🌈🫶🫰

Don't force it. If you ain't vibin, then you gotta go, bruh!

Your presence is enough❤️

Personal opinion about Soul's posts

I once wondered why hearts burn with fiery rage Why love can turn to anger, and a soul's dark cage But now I understand, for I've walked that same flame And felt the fury that fuels, the heart's deepest pain

🎯💯🌟🤗🌻

How to make ANY woman blush!

Be yourself, everyone else is taken 🫦

Sacrifice for a Woman

Boredom Tips 👍🏽

Progress

You don't need to look for it everywhere, take a step back, consider the reality of the situation. Let yourself feel but don't forget to listen to your mind 🙏🏽 Things tend to find you when you don't look for them. Be well 🌻

If you keep telling people you're not good enough, they might start repeating it to you. Don't put yourself down and definitely do NOT allow others to, either. Champion yourself and the right people will champion you. Be kind to the person in the mirror. 🙏🏽🌻

Babe, don't give me space to miss you. Cuz I won't. I got that special brand of ADHD "outta sight outta mind", and you just actived invisibility mode. We are not the same. 💅🏻

I think not only 7🤔

I stay, but you... Disappear

I've started playing Stardew Valley, can you give me any tips or interesting facts or hidden tasks?

💭

7 TYPES OF PEOPLE TO AVOID

Never be afraid to walk away from a bad parent. Leave, before they ensure you become just like them.

Yes 1000% agree

You'll Be Fine 🤗

What am I to post? Boring to post everyday to level up.

Pretty much 🤷

I'm thinking to draft something about how to see less of thirst trap contents here.

Hair advice.

I'm not too sure how to word this lol

Into the stillness I quietly fade, Where secrets are safe and heartaches are made A silent retreat from the world's loud din Where peace and calm, softly step in

Need advice or explanation

I'm just saying. They would know best... 💅🏻