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Aira
Posted Wednesday, September 7, 2022
1y
ENFP
Taurus
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Co-worker
So I(22) have a co-worker(M30) who always says "Oh Aira, why you don't know this? This is easy, you don't know anything." about the things I did and have seen for the first time. He would even say "Oh I always do everything for you." which is not true and always criticize my pronunciation tho thai people are using british accent while me, a filipina, is using American accent. It's quite annoying coz he always makes me feels like I'm stupid to the point I don't want to talk to him anymore. (edited)
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Kelly
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ENFP
It's sounds like he likes you. There's a thing some guys do called "negging" (short for negative). When a guy neggs you, he tries to pretend like he is being nice or looking out for you but he's actually insulting you. Guys do this because it lowers a woman's self esteem and makes them easier to manipulate. He knows that you are out of his league and he hopes negging you makes you feel worthless so you'll sleep with him. Either that or he's just on a power trip because you're young and beautiful. I bet he's always “just joking” when you call him on it. Nezt time he asks why you don't know something say "Why would you say something like that to me?" That will put him on the defensive. You don't need to say anything else. Hell probably get mad and feel insulted but all you did was ask a question so don't feel bad. Or just ignore him and pretend like you didn't hear it. He won't like doing it if you don't react to it. Or just laugh at him. Let's say his name is Matt. Be like, "Ha ha. Classic Matt, always trying to be the smart guy." or "Uh oh, smarty pants Matt coming out to play." Or negg him back, "Wow Matt, I love how you always have something nice to say." Next time he says, "I always do things for you" then call him on it and actually ask him to do something. "Yeah, I appreciate that. Could you do THIS for me?" If he criticizes your pronunciation say, "Hey I appreciate the concern but that's not helpful." Treat him like the little kid he's acting like. Overall I'd try to talk to him as little as possible. When he talks to you and it's not necessary for work, say, "Hey I'm busy right now. I've got something I'm doing." Just walk by him and ignore him whenever you can without being rude. If he asks what's wrong say, "Nothing I'm just busy with work." Which is the truth. You don't have time for this loser!
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Trev
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ISTP
Aries
It's called being fake.
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Anya
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ESTJ
Pisces
Tell him you don't appreciate being condescending to and you don't need his commentary
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