Posted Wednesday, October 15, 2025

I need answers or advice, idk

so, i met this woman recently. She's sweet and beautiful, and i've grown quite fond of her. But we're just friends obv. We have a seven hour time zone difference, so that makes coms a bit confusing. Recently she told me about a couple of experiences that she had when she was fifteen and ninteen, and ever since she told me i can't stop thinking about what she could've gone through. I feel raw anger when i think about the situation, i want the person who is responsible for her trauma to suffer. I told her about my traumatic experience, not to make her feel better, but to let her know that she's not alone. I can't sleep, cuz i keep thinking about it,about her. I really want to be close to her and comfort her, with a hug for example. What does all of this mean? What does it say about myself? What do i do? I'm just so confused and idk what to do.

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Some people are protectors naturally, i know i am, it's easy for my to talk about my trauma, but when i hear about others traumas, my natural instinct to protect and nurture come out. I think it means youre a caring protective person. We can not change the past, but we can focus action on preventing it from happening to other young people.

Congrats. You have unlocked basic human compassion. 😂 Solid debuff if you ask me. As for what to do, no clue. Maybe try catching an opportunity of voice/video communication, as such complex topics tend to suffer in text form. We'ra on average to liguistically crippled, and suntext of tone and mimic makes one heck of a difference. And well... Then talk about it. I don't really see any other realistic option. Tbh...

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