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_Firefly_

15 days ago

INTJ
Virgo
Anyone in Arizona?

Like most apps, lots of people on here disappear when I don't respond right away because I'm at work(imagine that) so they unmatch me or something. I try to reply in a timely fashion but I can't be on my phone at work! Has anyone made genuine, lasting connections on here for friendship or romance? In addition, do I have to be a paid member to LIKE someone's profile? People are liking me, but I can't personally find that option anywhere on here for myself. Thanks for any feedback! πŸ™‚

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Josh

15 days ago

INFP
Taurus

6w7

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No the like thing is just clicking the heart when you're using the matching feature. But the matching feature seems pretty weak. I have met cool people in the feed though. 😁

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_Firefly_

15 days ago

INTJ
Virgo

Thanks Josh. There is no heart that I can see. I've only been on here a few days though. Yes people in the feed are generally friendly. I agree the matching feature needs improvement.

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Josh

15 days ago

INFP
Taurus

6w7

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It may be different with the free version of the app, but I have the paid version. I think a lot of people in the matching are just using it as a hookup so of you don't reply immediately they're on to the next one. Bullets dodged if you ask me!

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Kyndall

15 days ago

ENFJ
Cancer

2w1

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If you're looking at the profile of someone that has already matched you (the "requests" section in your inbox) at the very top there will be a timer for how long you have left, and buttons to either accept or decline. If you accept, you can then message from there. 😊 No need to pay unless you are trying to message someone who hasn't matched with you yet. In that case, it will cost 50 coins, but you can earn those from being active on the forum here, or reporting profiles/posts you see that aren't in compliance with community standards.

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_Firefly_

15 days ago

INTJ
Virgo

Thank you! 😊

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Onda

15 days ago

INTJ
Taurus

5w6

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do you mean that they disappear if you don't answer in minutes or like after a week?

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_Firefly_

15 days ago

INTJ
Virgo

Well, the length of time it would take to work a shift and run a few errands. It's like people want an immediate response which just isn't realistic. Not a week. Hours.

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Onda

15 days ago

INTJ
Taurus

5w6

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then it's a childish behaviour by them, don't feel guilty for anything. how can aldults be upset for things like that haha. probably they don't need to work or to provide money, must be spoiled people. you deserve mature people alongside you.

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Sharon

14 days ago

INFJ
Leo

1w9

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I have met someone who could wind up being friend or more. Real cool guy. So it is possible despite the ghosting and tons of people with absolutely no conversation. Try to stay patient, and at the least remember you can simply make new friends. πŸ™‚

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