Tacet

Posted Tuesday, May 3, 2022

1y

INTP

Scorpio

Is this asexuality?

Term-wise, I never understand what to call my sexuality. I don't find gender specific parts nor sex to be attractive and have little to no interest to partake in anything that involves such parts; despite this, I am exceedingly kinky and into nearly every non-gender part related play. This leaves me in a weird in between. Asexuals find me to be too kinky, and the average person on a dating app is too sexual for me as many can't comprehend being in a sexual relationship without the sex. Dated a female back in high school who is asexual. Best relationship I ever had, but when things became long distance it didn't hold up. I normally use the term demisexual, as it seems closer to where I fall, but no amount of me liking a person will ever make me like their gendered parts nor sex. Does anyone else have this similar issue? I personally have never met a person in this weird in between of asexuality to gender and sexual parts, but hyper sexual to bedroom fun activities that don't involve sex.