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Posted Wednesday, January 15, 2025
23d
INTJ
Taurus
Looking for friends!
Beyond heartbroken from my whole life of perfect relationships leaving me just because of the no sex. Everything was perfect, serious long term relationships, perfect mature emotionally intelligent person, and always fell through no matter what. It's understandable but when I communicate everything upfront, it hurts. You think you have someone perfect then they disappear, for nothing that you did. You could be the nicest person and everyone keeps leaving you like you're Ted Bundy. Not mad at them, I understand, just upset at the situation. I'm glad theres people out here who also understand. It hurts to know others are getting this reaction as well. It's so beyond painful. You all deserve love, especially for trying as much as you are for reaching out for connection still. You guys are so strong for reaching out despite all these bad experiences. Looking for friends around the northeast or anywhere tbh. Really need support at this time. (edited)
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Jaime
23d
ISTJ
Gemini
I hear that. I was talking with two people separate times, I thought we were getting along just fine. We literally laughed together crack jokes. I would always try to make there day then out of the blue just poof gone. Not gonna lit definitely hurt that second one hurt the most because here I thought I have a good friend I can finally trust in. I guess I was still very wrong in every aspect of what I thought was going to be a great friendship. So sorry to hear about your situation, I definitely feel your pain and emotions. š„ŗš¤šš¼. (edited)
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Chris
23d
ISTJ
Gemini
That is called being celibate not asexual asexual is reproduction without another person which humans donāt do and if you want a relationship that is part of it so you will continue to have men eventually leave you donāt want to hear the truth but you canāt make reality change just because you want it to
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Reggie
23d
INFJ
Virgo
I am sorry for your loss. It takes a lot of work and communication for an asexual relationship and even then it's sad when it doesn't work
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Alex
22d
ISTJ
Cancer
The best support that you can get is from you we borne alone we die alone so do not stress yourself about things that you canāt control there will be people that will appreciate us and others donāt take care of yourself and if the persons that is for you will be come to your life till then enjoy your life doing things that make you happy and strong!
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Ben
23d
INFJ
Libra
I was talking to someone once, and I related it to D&D. I love D&D. Roleplaying. Pen and paper. I'd love to play pen and paper with my partner. And yes, if my partner ultimately doesn't want to play D&D with me, that would make me sad. But it doesn't mean I can't still care for them, and enjoy them. Especially if there's ways that they obviously try and have us experience similar things that they might be okay with, and they don't mind me exercising the fact that I enjoy D&D outside of them. Sex isn't really that different. It's one more 'thing' that a person likes, is into, and satisfies a part of their brain. Yes, not being able to share something you enjoy with someone you enjoy can be sad. But 'I don't want to have sex' isn't that different than 'I don't want to play D&D.' For some people, sure, it's something that they really, truly do need their partner to take part in it with them. For others... Well, it's a bit more optional. Like most things, we just have to keep searching for people who make us feel like we are safe to be, and share, our self with them, and that we won't be expected to be anything more.
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