error 143 basically solidified why I should just give up looking for sub because that game made me feel more appreciated in the last two weeks than I have in years.

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Error 143 is a visual novel video game where you are trying to hack a hacker that stole your spot only for him to hack you back. You two startup flirtatious relationship. He sends you gifts and you guys talk over direct message and video calls.

The thing that actually got me was when I was playing last night I've been playing a little bit at a time because I want to really stay for the story it's not all the time that you see a visual note with the soul of interest being a gorgeous alternatively styled black Asian.

What got me about last night was not only did the love interest ask your permission before sending a risky picture he has for nothing in return you had already been talking for a little bit so you knew him at least a little. And he says with no joking no hyperbole no sarcasm that you're attractive and he's into you.

And he text back you didn't have to do anything sexy first for him to want to keep talking to you

And he actually sends you gifts that you want.

Yes this video game has destroyed any chance of me finding a submissive but I'm definitely not going to try to find a dominant this is the standard I want and I'm not settling.

I want someone to like me platonically and doesn't make me feel weird for not flirting or for things not getting x-rated just because of what I'm into.

Maybe it's just me but just because I'm BDSM doesn't mean I want to play with everyone before I can say they're really good friends. That's when I want to start playing with someone. But I feel like when you play with someone and you let them call you nicknames like your highness or something like that we can't be friends and honest we get to know each other you've already viewed me as your better

Mi · Accepted Answer

What you describe is minimal regardless of Dom/ sub. I know plenty Dom's who would do that too. So yes, if that's what really looking for, it's not sub that you want. Anyone who's not at least that respectful can get lost.
Good luck.

Dan · Answer

Sometimes I think it’s not cut and dry dom vs sub, granted I’m not too versed in the scene but what you describe just sounds like pda and respect. I hope you find that and never lose it

Stephen · Answer

I've seen it about a million times in the lifestyle that Doms/Dommes demand titles within minutes sometimes even seconds of meeting someone. Respect should be earned and whilst trust is given, in is own way is earned too. People just want to rush to the end when the journey is important too

Matt · Answer

Not sure a visual novel is a good...measure for real life kink.

error 143 basically solidified why I should just give up looking for sub because that game made me feel more appreciated in the last two weeks than I have in years.

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What you describe is minimal regardless of Dom/ sub. I know plenty Dom's who would do that too. So yes, if that's what really looking for, it's not sub that you want. Anyone who's not at least that respectful can get lost. Good luck.

Sometimes I think it’s not cut and dry dom vs sub, granted I’m not too versed in the scene but what you describe just sounds like pda and respect. I hope you find that and never lose it

I've seen it about a million times in the lifestyle that Doms/Dommes demand titles within minutes sometimes even seconds of meeting someone. Respect should be earned and whilst trust is given, in is own way is earned too. People just want to rush to the end when the journey is important too

Not sure a visual novel is a good...measure for real life kink.

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