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Billy

1 month ago

INTP
Taurus
Messaging etiquette

Quite frequently I'll see a post on here that piques my interest, so I'll check out the person's profile which will only further pique my interest. Is it cool to just randomly message someone and be like "I thought your post was neat and I think you might be neat and I just wanted to say hi" I don't know if those messages would even go through, cause maybe you have to be matched first to send a message. Also - tbh - I'll probably blank immediately after the "I think you might be neat" part and run out of convo. I'm an interesting and witty person, but I'm not good at fabricating conversations out of nothing. Also also - I don't want to annoy or bug someone who's just trying to post something and enjoy Boo.

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Kurt

1 month ago

INTJ
Scorpio

6w5

6

5

Yeah, may as well shoot your shot. Worst that can happen is that they don't reply.

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deavo_rayphel

1 month ago

INTJ
Cancer

5w6

5

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You've gotta pay 50 coins to send a message to someone on the forum here, prior to matching with them... But they'll see it (unless you unsend it prior to them seeing it), & then they have the option to also treat it as a like, functionally, & either accept or decline the invitation to match with you. If they decline, you can keep sending more messages, but it costs 50 more coins each time, unless/until they choose to match with ya. And also, you can only send plain text until you match. No voice messages, pictures, or GIFs.

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Tracy

1 month ago

ISTP
Aries

8w7

8

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Yes, those messages do go through even if you haven't "matched" with that person. Also, I think those are the best types of messages to get. I mean, I don't check dm's often but when I do those are the ones that make me think "ok, this person might actually not be a perv". I'm still not responding, but I appreciate them lol

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Mandy

1 month ago

INTP
Libra

6w5

6

5

Maybe add a specific point in their profile that you think is neat, otherwise it might seem like a message one would just copy/paste to everyone regardless of reading their profile. I don't personally answer messages like that for that reason

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Ashley

1 month ago

ISFP
Virgo

4w5

4

5

I think it’s cool! This kind of message shows that you’re really reading and interested in what the person has to say!

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Roli

1 month ago

INTJ
Scorpio

8w9

8

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It how these things suppose to work, but society tries to apply real world rules to a digital world. Ive done what you do. And when i get blocked or backlash well it shows me exactly what i need to know about a person. Maya Angelou said it best " a person's frist action towards you is their true self"

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Billy

1 month ago

INTP
Taurus

This is one of many subtle ways my anxiety and neurosis like to mess with me

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Ramses

1 month ago

ENTP
Gemini

3w2

3

2

I do the same thing all the time. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

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Isabella

1 day ago

INFJ
Scorpio

6w5

6

5

They totally go thru without being matched

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Kris

1 month ago

INTJ
Scorpio

I think that's typically how it goes. Don't think too much. You'll end up backing out.

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