Hey y'all haven't been on in a hot minute, alot has happened and living by myself but I feel... Depressed and lonely, been looking for someone hopefully I can develop a relationship with but all I get is judged before anyone even knows what is going on ...

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Josh · Accepted Answer

I might sound rude, insensitive, basically offensive. Don't get me wrong, none of my intentions, I'm alexithymic so can't really connect empathically. But not using that as an excuse but listen or read what I'm trying to say, I guess.

Things happen, whether we like it or not. Whether we live or not, everything will continually happen.

As the philosopher Albert Camus pointing out, either to take a coffee mug or end everything since it is basically pointless either ways.

There will be people who will judge you and people who would genuinely love/accept/care for you, eventually. It could take time or you have to navigate life, the people that surrounds you and such.

But, I'd recommend, take the advice if you see it as positive or just ignore my comment if it's negative, if you see it that way. So, my advice will be, give to yourself what you personally need, you may include what you romantically need as well.

People would always fail you, you really can't trust anyone but yourself. People would surely disagree on my statement since easy way are preferable than hard way.

Show and give the love you long for and need for yourself, before minding the external type of love.

Not sure if I make sense with these.

Ayyan · Answer

Try to to pick up a hobby to keep yourself busy !

Hey y'all haven't been on in a hot minute, alot has happened and living by myself but I feel... Depressed and lonely, been looking for someone hopefully I can develop a relationship with but all I get is judged before anyone even knows what is going on ... (edited)

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Try to to pick up a hobby to keep yourself busy !

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