How do you deal with the feeling of attachment ?

I understand what you mean , I also used to be very naive and open-up my heart to everyone, but it takes more time because i kinda restrict mysrlf from attaching 😅 but still it kinda hurts when after months of speaking you separate. I convince myself that's natural process of life and I need to value good memories but still too hard to deal with

Understand what you mean , but I'm in two minds , cause if find more people I may lose some valuable people and emotions idk 😅 Thanks for sharing btw

@Daryna I get you. I just wish that people we attach to would attach to us as well in the same way XD

Thanks for your words 🌸

Thanks for your advice 🌸

Yeah feel the same way 😭💞 thanks for sharing

Thanks for sharing 🌸 I usually quit waiting for respond after one day haha But I talk about not only the situation when I'm ghosted but more about mutual loss of interest

@Daryna im the only one who is 100% gonna text back fast .. except if im sleeping haha

I agree with what you're saying but i don't think that's my case, I always have enough attention , but because i naturally give a lot off energy to other people i feel attached to them

@Daryna isn't it tiring tho? It's said that if someone requires 100 $ but u only have 50$ how can u provide the other 50$? Giving off is more tiring when u have few left.

@Sumit I love chatting , getting to know other people , so i produce this energy only because i enjoy the process. That's true though that sometimes i don't want to talk anybody when I'm tired

@Daryna I guess it is ok then. It's funny when we talk to people like in deep level and they share their story then they are leaving a part of them to u. So I don't know if we will ever get rid of that part because it has already been ours now.

@Sumit Yes! Exactly

@Daryna but it does sound creepy when I say thanks for letting me have a piece of u 😅

@Sumit hahahha

Haha yeah I'm trying my best to distract myself but still end up as Spongebob and write this post 😅😅

@Daryna Yeah it's a very lonely feeling. Makes you think you did something wrong and makes you wonder what it was that you did. I disagree with anyone telling you to just talk with tons of people to preoccupy yourself because hey, that's how you lose interest in individuals and that could be exactly what the people who stopped talking with you did.

@Craig true , i also think the more people you talk to simultaneously, the less interest you put in it, then what is the purpose of such communication

@Daryna That's what I think too. Once you have too many people, you're never gonna have a good conversation with every one of them. Or you could, but then you'd have no time for literally anything else. I wouldn't want my chats with people to just turn into "hey how are you doing?" every couple of days. That's not fair on anyone, and as you say, lacks purpose.

@Craig yep , that's why i usually give off a lot of energy to people, who I talk with ,maybe this is the root of attachment problem haha

@Daryna You know, you could be right actually. Plenty of energy for people is such a positive thing though, I really can't understand anyone who doesn't welcome that. Don't change who you are for people who simply can't handle it, that's what I think.

@Craig thanks 🌸