Kat

Posted December 2, 2022

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

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5

just wondering

do you ever feel like you want to socialize but at the same time don't, like maybe you just want someone's presence nearby, without feeling a pressure to be entertaining. just some company even if you're both being quiet haha

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Yaz

3mo

ENFP
Cancer

6w7

6

7

Sometimes its nice to have company without doing anything significant. Its more fun to do nothing with someone versus doing nothing alone.

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Kat

3mo

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

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Yeah especially with someone you're really comfortable with to get to that point

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Trenton

3mo

INFJ
Taurus

Yes because I too have cat-like tendencies at times

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Kat

3mo

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

4

5

Lol I was actually thinking to myself like "wow am I literally like a cat?" 😂

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Trenton

3mo

INFJ
Taurus

@Kat lol it happens. Spend too much time around cats and you start acting like one

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Kat

3mo

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

4

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@Trenton I don't have any now but my parents did when I was a baby and apparently one of the kitties slept next to me in my crib lol

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Trenton

3mo

INFJ
Taurus

@Kat it imprinted its habits onto you as a baby

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Kat

3mo

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

4

5

@Trenton lol 😂 it all makes sense now 🤯

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Trenton

3mo

INFJ
Taurus

@Kat if you ever want to be a cat with me, lazily basking in the sun or something, just send me a message

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Devin

3mo

INFJ
Pisces

I legit got the urge to knock a glass over once

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Trenton

3mo

INFJ
Taurus

@Devin who doesn't get that urge

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Devin

3mo

INFJ
Pisces

@Trenton it was a glass full of a red drink that my mother was holding if that narrows it down, had the urge to kick it out of her hand.

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Trenton

3mo

INFJ
Taurus

@Devin ah I was thinking of one sitting on a counter and you just lazily swipe it off

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Devin

3mo

INFJ
Pisces

@Trenton on a counter no, urge to lazily swipe at it with one of my limbs, yes

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David

3mo

INFP
Cancer

Schrödingers social anxiety

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Jay

3mo

INTJ
Aries

Haha, nice

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Ethan Cottrell

3mo

ENFP
Leo

3w4

3

4

Yeah I completely agree that you just want someone there regardless of what your doing but just to be by your side

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Eli

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ENFP
Gemini

2w3

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Two people together must be more than simply the sum of two parts. If the match is right, 1 + 1 should equal three. This is important because any relationship is going to have bumps in the road. If both sides of the relationship understand that walking away cost them nothing, it makes it that much easier for them to do so. If they feel they are going to be reduced to less than 1/2 of their dynamic duo, they are more likely to reconsider and try to work things out for the better. Relationships like that last a lifetime.

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Fredrika

3mo

INFP
Sagittarius

This is what I loved the most about living with my best friend - we could just keep each other company without the pressure of being entertaining.

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Kat

3mo

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

4

5

Awe I love that, it sounds fun to be living with a best friend

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Fredrika

3mo

INFP
Sagittarius

@Kat it really was! Although you really need to make sure you can deal with all their negative sides as well, and that you're able to have a healthy discussion, otherwise you're probably gonna have a falling out🥴 Other than that I strongly recommend!

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Billy

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ISFJ
Cancer

8w7

8

7

Yes. One of the greatest things is to be with someone you don't have to say a word to all day, and it not be awkward whatsoever. Truly rare to find.

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Alyne Dourado

1mo

ENFP
Gemini

Hi😁

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Jay Luna sakura

3mo

INFJ
Aries

Girl omg yes, I'm just like that too, sometimes I just want someone to be near but let me do my own thing like gaming or studying lol also I feel drained around friends who wanna do all kinds of things everywhere, I'm kind of a homebody

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Kat

3mo

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

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Dan

3mo

INFJ
Leo

4w5

4

5

I miss sleeping with someone just because of this, and I don't even mean in the same room but just in call, the presence is comforting somehow

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Kat

3mo

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

4

5

Yesss this, it is a really nice feeling

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Magikarp

3mo

ENTJ
Pisces

9w8

9

8

🐈

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Kat

3mo

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

4

5

😺

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Indra (he/him)

3mo

INFP
Cancer

4w5

4

5

Yeah

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Ivan

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INTJ
Aries

5w6

5

6

Everyone does, sometimes, but not everyone is willing or ready to admit it.

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Ky Holierhoek

3mo

INTP
Gemini

Oh my gosh, yes. I have adhd and can't direct my attention to one person or thing for a long period of time, sometimes I just wanna be around someone and that's it.

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Kat

3mo

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

4

5

ngl I've been questioning if I should look into getting tested for ADHD for the longest time. because why is it so many things that come up about it is relatable

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Jason

3mo

INTJ
Aquarius

6w5

6

5

I like to enjoy quiet company, trying to make constant conversation is exhausting.

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RaHuL

3mo

ISTP
Scorpio

8w7

8

7

Same same 😂

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Zach

3mo

ENFJ
Capricorn

4w5

4

5

Thats me sometimes im like eh but other times im funny i have had same 5 close friends my whole life tho so ik im lucky in that way

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Tristan Terry

3mo

INFP
Libra

all the time. I have some times where I'm stressed and regress a bit (struggle to speak complete sentences, etc) and during those especially I want to socialize but physically can't, and it gives me massive anxiety to try. Thanks, human brain

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Dan

3mo

INTP
Virgo

4w5

4

5

This is ideal. :)

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Halaxy

2mo

ISTJ
Scorpio

7w6

7

6

Major mood right here 😌💕

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Joy Sandra

3mo

INTP
Libra

When you finally find that, just know you've found your peace 🕊️💯

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Krissy D

3mo

INTJ
Leo

1w2

1

2

That sounds like a man's definition of marriage or relationship

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