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Posted December 2, 2022
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just wondering
do you ever feel like you want to socialize but at the same time don't, like maybe you just want someone's presence nearby, without feeling a pressure to be entertaining. just some company even if you're both being quiet haha
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3mo
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Sometimes its nice to have company without doing anything significant. Its more fun to do nothing with someone versus doing nothing alone.
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Yeah especially with someone you're really comfortable with to get to that point
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3mo
Yes because I too have cat-like tendencies at times
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3mo
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Lol I was actually thinking to myself like "wow am I literally like a cat?" ๐
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@Kat lol it happens. Spend too much time around cats and you start acting like one
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@Trenton I don't have any now but my parents did when I was a baby and apparently one of the kitties slept next to me in my crib lol
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@Kat it imprinted its habits onto you as a baby
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3mo
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@Trenton lol ๐ it all makes sense now ๐คฏ
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@Kat if you ever want to be a cat with me, lazily basking in the sun or something, just send me a message
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3mo
I legit got the urge to knock a glass over once
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@Devin who doesn't get that urge
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@Trenton it was a glass full of a red drink that my mother was holding if that narrows it down, had the urge to kick it out of her hand.
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@Devin ah I was thinking of one sitting on a counter and you just lazily swipe it off
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@Trenton on a counter no, urge to lazily swipe at it with one of my limbs, yes
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3mo
Schrรถdingers social anxiety
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Haha, nice
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3mo
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Yeah I completely agree that you just want someone there regardless of what your doing but just to be by your side
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3mo
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Two people together must be more than simply the sum of two parts. If the match is right, 1 + 1 should equal three. This is important because any relationship is going to have bumps in the road. If both sides of the relationship understand that walking away cost them nothing, it makes it that much easier for them to do so. If they feel they are going to be reduced to less than 1/2 of their dynamic duo, they are more likely to reconsider and try to work things out for the better. Relationships like that last a lifetime.
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3mo
This is what I loved the most about living with my best friend - we could just keep each other company without the pressure of being entertaining.
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3mo
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Awe I love that, it sounds fun to be living with a best friend
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@Kat it really was! Although you really need to make sure you can deal with all their negative sides as well, and that you're able to have a healthy discussion, otherwise you're probably gonna have a falling out๐ฅด Other than that I strongly recommend!
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3mo
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Yes. One of the greatest things is to be with someone you don't have to say a word to all day, and it not be awkward whatsoever. Truly rare to find.
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1mo
Hi๐
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3mo
Girl omg yes, I'm just like that too, sometimes I just want someone to be near but let me do my own thing like gaming or studying lol also I feel drained around friends who wanna do all kinds of things everywhere, I'm kind of a homebody
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exactly.
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3mo
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I miss sleeping with someone just because of this, and I don't even mean in the same room but just in call, the presence is comforting somehow
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3mo
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Yesss this, it is a really nice feeling
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3mo
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๐
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3mo
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๐บ
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3mo
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Yeah
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3mo
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Everyone does, sometimes, but not everyone is willing or ready to admit it.
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3mo
Oh my gosh, yes. I have adhd and can't direct my attention to one person or thing for a long period of time, sometimes I just wanna be around someone and that's it.
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ngl I've been questioning if I should look into getting tested for ADHD for the longest time. because why is it so many things that come up about it is relatable
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3mo
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I like to enjoy quiet company, trying to make constant conversation is exhausting.
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3mo
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Same same ๐
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3mo
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Thats me sometimes im like eh but other times im funny i have had same 5 close friends my whole life tho so ik im lucky in that way
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3mo
all the time. I have some times where I'm stressed and regress a bit (struggle to speak complete sentences, etc) and during those especially I want to socialize but physically can't, and it gives me massive anxiety to try. Thanks, human brain
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3mo
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This is ideal. :)
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2mo
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Major mood right here ๐๐
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When you finally find that, just know you've found your peace ๐๏ธ๐ฏ
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3mo
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That sounds like a man's definition of marriage or relationship
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