Cody

Posted Saturday, November 12, 2022

1y

ISFP

Libra

I smell evil in the air.

I've been seeing lots of posts about men harassing women, that were written by guys, and not onlt do those posts attract more positive attention from women but they also attract a fair number of men who agree woth the sentiment - and some that do not. I was thinking about this earlier and it just kind of hit me, suddenly. ...you wouldn't suppose that these men who are white knighting are actively harassing these girls like I might personally suspect... would you? Realllllllly think about this for a second. Given how women talk about this on an almost constant basis on pretty much every dating platform known to man, if you're an intelligent and thoughtful person interested in such issues, you're going to assume without question that at least 60% or more of the men these women contact are exposing themselves inappropriately in DMs and such, given how frequently women post about it on their posts and bios. ...Now take a look at posts by men criticizing the idea. They resemble empty deserts if you could use a geographic biome as a synonym, lol. Surprisingly few men seem to agree. ...do these numbers not add up or strike anyone as particularly odd? Thing is, it's impossible to say that the women are lying about it, because let's face it, men can be absolutely retarded when interacting with a woman so it's not that unbelievable. Hell I think some of them doing just because its fun and that it might even work for them, for what all I can tell. What I find interesting, however, is how many men there are that are quick to agree with this sentiment as opposed to criticizing it - almost as if it doesn't reflect reality. If you are a woman who genuinely believes that the number of potential harassers/abusers is as high as you suspect it to be, then you need to be wary of these 'white knights', because a person can say things you might like but then be an absolute terror who is mostly just out to make themselves look good for you - with the intent to 'benefit'. I expect a number of people to take offense to this, but chances are if you're a guy and you do take offense, you probably shouldn't, if you know yourself deep-down and understand that you are not that person - ignoring this observation all together would be the strong/confident thing to do if you are principled because it won't apply to you. Anyway, this is just something I happened to notice. You see a lot of talking about it, but when people ask 'why' you just get the same answers that have been thrown around for the better part of 6+ years: the feminists hold men/partriarchy responsible and the MGTOW or anti-woke crowd fires back full cylinders. Nothing helpful. Nothing to ease tensions, and nothing useful to address the actual problem with. It's as foggy as Will Smith's Decision to star in Wild-Wild West. (...lol)