Hazey

Posted June 13, 2022

ISFP
Leo

Advice pls

Ment to be going on a date this week and I'm crazy nervous. Have the tendency to be really awkward Any tips?

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Nathan chittick

9mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

Honestly be ur self and don't be nervous ur a very beautiful woman. anyone would be lucky to have u. if anything they should be nervous. I know I would be because u definitely look like one of the popular girls in school who wouldnt date guys like me. I would think I'd be out of ur league. Stay positive and be ur self is all I can say and be on gaurd too. There are a lot of presiders out there too. Definitely be careful and safe

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Hazey

9mo

ISFP
Leo

Hahaha I was shy asf in school barely anyone knew I existed

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Nathan chittick

9mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

@Hazey That's exactly how I was. I pretty much kept to my self

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Ronnie

9mo

INTJ
Aquarius

3w4

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You're super cute. Whoever they are is probably more nervous because you're so cute. You have the high ground. Embrace it.

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Hazey

9mo

ISFP
Leo

I strongly disagree but appreciate the sentiment

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Steve

9mo

ESTJ
Aquarius

9w1

9

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Just be yourself, awkwardness is a thing and if the person you go on a date with can't handle it, it's just not meant to be. If you plan to accept someone, you have to accept all their quirks as well

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Colin

9mo

INTJ
Taurus

8w9

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Just be yourself!

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Joe

8mo

ENFP
Leo

1w9

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9

Just be yourself and don't over think it. He's probably just as nervous as you. Finding someone for you will happen organically this way. Don't force anything. Just... be... you. 🙂

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Jesper

9mo

INTP
Leo

From a guy's perspective, it's nice when... -a girl shows her interests by conversation. -has acceptable manners and etiquette (constant texting or eating messily for example) -a girl is genuine Also have to agree with Matthew here, you're "awkwardness" might very well be your strength 😉

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Ibrahim

9mo

ESFP
Sagittarius

Go for a 10 mile run this week or go hard at the gym, it will calm you down significantly.

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David

9mo

ISTJ
Pisces

9w1

9

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Yup. Be awkward. Some guys find it charming.

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S.steve

8mo

ESTJ
Gemini

I have a big dream is a to date like a hevan like a angel u looking like an angel that why I should date with you can you join with me plzzz😊

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BetweenUanI

7mo

ESTP
Gemini

3w4

3

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Yep! Don't be awkward.

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Danielle

4mo

ESTP
Scorpio

6w7

6

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The general just be yourself applies. But it's okay to be nervous that's a sign that you either genuinely like that person or you want to like that person. It's natural to get nervous before doing something that you aren't use to doing or a situation that is new to you. Once you get more comfortable and relaxed the date with fly by and you'll forget why you were even nervous. That's how I was with my frst date with my boyfriend. It's nerve racking and there's nothing we can do to make those nerves go away. They'll go away naturally. Best of luck! 💖

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Peter

4mo

INTJ
Scorpio

2w3

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Well there are many pieces of advice to give. But its hard to say what would work for you since I dont know you on a personal level. Especially one that would work so well so quickly in a short period of time. I believe most of the "quick easy general advice" has likely already been given. Being yourself is important. Maybe ask why youre nervous in the first place. Maybe ask yourself, what would make me less nervous? Sometimes telling people that your nervous helps. If you wanna talk about it sometimes, and im sure youd be nervous :D. let me know. Its something that you can overcome if you are willing to take steps to try.

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Danielle

9mo

ISFJ
Gemini

8w9

8

9

Be yourself..you are enough..be true to yourself about how YOU feel about HIM.. your feelings are valid..pretty lady☺️😄

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WinRaz

7mo

ISTJ
Scorpio

4w3

4

3

If that guy don't see how cute you are when you get nervous? Dude.. find someone else. It's okay to be nervous, as long as you're genuine with what you're showing or telling him... I think that's enough. The rest will work out and progress after the first date.

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Mark

4mo

INFP
Pisces

Lol

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Nick

9mo

INFJ
Gemini

If you're worried that you'll mess up, then you'll be fine. If thats something you're trying to avoid, you'll avoid it. You got this.

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Jo

9mo

ENTJ
Virgo

Nervous is good...be nervous c: !!!! Small talk is best ! Don't over think about "date" just think as a hang out ...you will do just fine ma'am ^∆^ ....make sure the boy treat you well, if not let me know to chop his balls off for you ! .....y'all are still "young " so think young c: it totally okay to be awkward cause that's how everyone date is , just small talk, let it flow , don't think to much of that day either . Let time just pass with little moments that makes you smile and hopefully you would want to go back on a date again. Don't be afraid of yourself or what that person think either. You be you c:

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Phillip

8mo

ENTJ
Aquarius

1w9

1

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Cal then and get use to talking to them if it's a boo thing If it's more of a irl you met and are gonna see how it goes, just follow his lead. You'll be fine

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Brandon LaVell Edwards

4mo

INFP
Sagittarius

8w7

8

7

Just remember the dumber you feel the better the date is going. Same relationship with feeling weird.

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