Posted Wednesday, April 15, 2026
28d
INTP
Taurus
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7I don't Understand
Why am I always expected to carry the conversation when some of these women are the one liking me. Or as a whole, if I say hello, you say hello, back. If you aren't so interested on me, let me know. But it's just like as a whole. Why am I expecting to carry the conversation? I understand that that's a clear sign of they don't actually like you, but it's just happening. So many times that I'm expected to be the one to give you the time of day. why do I have to be the one always chasing?
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Nikki
28d
INTJ
Gemini
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4I hear this a lot. On dating apps [ in the round], women tend to be drowning in volume so really, the perceived effort imbalance is about maths, less about men per se. Women on average get a lot more matches than what a man gets so we end up filtering by behaviour. I know it seems like it but men aren't really chasing as such, dating platforms seem to be designed so that men need to create the spark before the woman decides to invest her energy.
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