Im curious... there was a point in my life I thought I was ready to settle down and find a husband but when I put that out there I couldn't find any men that seemed interested in getting to know me. Now I've decided I just want to be single and not looking for anything and it's like a sea of men are sliding in my DMs and all wanting to wife me up? What gives? I'm the same exact person nothing changed other then me not looking for anything serious? Just friendship?

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A lot of us guys see "looking for a husband" as a red flag, for a few reasons. To name some, she could be really clingy, she could be trying to get resources, or she could have already dated guys she was actually attracted to and wants to settle for someone that will just be there for her (makes us feel like we're the junior varsity). Plus, the idea of marriage comes way later, so it comes off as impatient/needy. It would be like if a guy's first message in your dm was that he wants to put a baby in you.

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usually people want what they can't have.that would explain the timing difference.i can't really say because what I've wanted has always been the same

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usually people want what they can't have.that would explain the timing difference.i can't really say because what I've wanted has always been the same

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