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Posted Saturday, October 12, 2024
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Why Inviting Girls to 'Apply' Might Leave Your DMs Empty: Tips for Genuine Engagement
This post gave me a good giggle. You mentioned that Goth Girls are a rare find, so do you honestly believe that inviting them to apply to you will magically fill your DMs? This is a classic example of what not to do! Guys, asking any girl to apply to you is bound to result in zero responses, and it will likely make you come across as desperate and entitled. Instead, try joining relevant tags like #goth, where some of them might post. Engage with their content by liking and commenting, but remember, some posts will receive significant interaction, so you'll need to stand out. Look for individuals who share similar interests to improve your chances. Create posts about goth topics to demonstrate your genuine interest in gothic culture, rather than just an interest in dating a goth girl. Goth girls appreciate authenticity and don't want to feel objectified because of stereotypes. #relationshipadvice #psychology #philosophy #boo #single #friends #conversation
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I think it's just funny enough to accidentally bring genuine engagement ๐
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Me as I read this whole post Trying to collect people like itโs a job posting or like Pokรฉmon is not a successful strategy?
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A interesting approach, if nothing else. But don't see many women suddenly applying for membership ๐คฃ
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ACTUAL FACTUAL !!! Well said ๐ซก Honestly... its soooo hard to bite my tongue on some posts out there ๐ ๐ฌ๐คฆ๐ปโโ๏ธ (edited)
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