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Posted May 19, 2023
5w4
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Messaging
My question is simple - if you like somebody and you match, would you message first? Why (not)? I'm just wanting to check if my thinking isn't a bit broken on this, call it a "reality check" if you will :D
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8w7
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Of course. There is no first movers advantage.
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5w4
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In my mind messaging first shows interest, as opposed to "I just matched randomly", which I'd consider advantageous :D
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6w7
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Yes, but it may not be immediately, because there is no time or mood.
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5w4
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This is a good and valid point, thank you :)
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6w7
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@Viktoria If someone is silent for a long time, then he is not interested in you. Maybe he sends likes to everyone.
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5w4
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@Ivan I figure, their loss though 😄 Not why I ask though, I'm just curious about other people's thoughts on messaging since I don't really use dating apps and I'm unfamiliar with the protocol :D
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6w7
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@Viktoria in almost all apps, most are trying to get 🔞, but it doesn't really work here. this is an strange app. I still don't understand what's going on and maybe other people too😜
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6w7
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I don't see why not msg first.
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9w1
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Generally on my end it's a waste of time, even after typing a well thought out message, either a one word reply or it never gets read. I read all of mine, as long as it's not something psycho like "Will you love me?" I'll reply.
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9w8
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Absolutely,just be yourself and let ur personality shine through 😊👍
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