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Dan

8 days ago

ENFJ
Capricorn
Meet up immediately or wait a bit?

I have heard all different perspectives on this question I'm just wondering what people think. Personally I used to be of the opinion that talking longer gives a better chance of success when meeting up but more and more lately I realized the benefit of meeting up sooner so that you don't waste time if you don't have a connection in person. What does everyone else think?

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Phil

8 days ago

ENFP
Aries

9w8

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Depends on the person. Sometimes the bio will say "take me on a date" or whatever, others will suggest otherwise. Sometimes you gotta read the subtext and figure it out for yourself :P

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Dan

8 days ago

ENFJ
Capricorn

Isn't that online dating in a nutshell - figure it out ourself lol

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Phil

8 days ago

ENFP
Aries

9w8

9

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Haha you may have a point 😅

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Laura

8 days ago

INFP
Cancer

5w4

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There's a limit to how long yu should wait before meeting up. I'd first say video chat.

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Dan

8 days ago

ENFJ
Capricorn

Interestingly havent done a video chat yet. Voice call yes but video no.

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Laura

8 days ago

INFP
Cancer

5w4

5

4

I think its best to message for a little bit, then voice chat, then video and finally meet up all of that should really take no longer than a month. It's both, safer, and, shows you the type of person you're talking to.

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Ely

8 days ago

ENTP
Pisces

Soon...get it over with 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Jamie

8 days ago

ENFP
Leo

8w7

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I think that people who meet up right away are likely looking for something instanteous, therefore are lkely to accept whatever that person is to get their needs met. Then they have either used the person, or have jumped full blown into a relationship they find problems with down the line as they go

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