Is a man attractive because of his persona? Can a man still be ugly if hes attractive with a goofy personality? Does he lose points if hes to forward or too attentive? Should he ignore you for a while or speak to you daily?

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Billie

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Men can be unattractive by his energy, his attitude and maybe the fact he smells like cheese

Stephen Crabtree

INTJ

Leo

Youre thinking too hard, just talk a girl's ear off. If she likes you, you'll be able to figure it out. Always make the first move.

Ori

ISTP

Pisces

The answer to all these questions will depend on the person. Although anyone who is drawn to someone who ignores them likely has unhealthy attachments

Tom

INTJ

Pisces

I mean who gives a s**t.

Tiesha

INFP

Aries

There’s men I find attractive based on personality alone, some examples being; I have to find them humorous, respectful of my time by not ignoring my point of view or when I speak my mind, and openly interested in me- but not too forward as to monopolize all of my time. I take notice of conventional attractiveness, but I make myself aware of if there is much more than that, because beauty is only skin deep and a man may have gone his whole life dependent on his looks without developing an attractive personality to me.

Christopher

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Be genuine and show interest in whoever reciprocates.

Kyle

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I've always said, and had it confirmed by quite a few women, that if you can make a woman smile and laugh, you've got a good start. Granted, different women smile and laugh at different things, so it boils down to knowing the woman you want to be with... (edited)

Pamela

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Leo

A man is attractive by the way he carries himself. It doesn’t matter if he isn’t the most attractive out there. If you can match her energy, have aligned goals, and you’re consistent and intentional, you’re golden. It really depends on the partner you’re with you’d be surprised. I’ve had men I thought were average who ended up looking extremely attractive to me after they showed me their true selves.

Gin

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Cory

ISTJ

Virgo

Height and bank account

Emma

INFP

Taurus

I think most of girls like the personality first. I don't care how someone looks if he's smart and funny

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From the comments so far, I assume you're trying to attract one woman?

Wilhelm

INTP

Cancer

To me that sound to specific of a question when everyone wants what THEY want. Just be a person that you are proud of and the right person will be around. (edited)

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Men can be unattractive by his energy, his attitude and maybe the fact he smells like cheese

Youre thinking too hard, just talk a girl's ear off. If she likes you, you'll be able to figure it out. Always make the first move.

The answer to all these questions will depend on the person. Although anyone who is drawn to someone who ignores them likely has unhealthy attachments

I mean who gives a s**t.

Be genuine and show interest in whoever reciprocates.

I've always said, and had it confirmed by quite a few women, that if you can make a woman smile and laugh, you've got a good start. Granted, different women smile and laugh at different things, so it boils down to knowing the woman you want to be with... (edited)

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Height and bank account

I think most of girls like the personality first. I don't care how someone looks if he's smart and funny

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