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Ari

1 month ago

ENFP
Taurus

8w7

8

7

What’s your preference?

Ok men! I’m curious…do you prefer it when a lady asks you out or do you prefer to ask her out? I’ve always been the one to ask a guy out, as it seems in todays society men are a bit more reserved (for good reason) but was just curious! TIA! (Thanks in Advance)

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Chase

1 month ago

ENFP
Taurus

5w6

5

6

I definitely prefer to be asked out. It's really hard asking girls out because I'm always nervous they're going to think I'm trying to harass them. Like I know I'm overthinking but there's so much negative stigma when a guy approaches a girl I just don't want to come off as weird or even worse... Annoying. I've tried approaching or talking to girls in public to get myself out there more but every time I do my friends cringe. I feel like it's way more socially acceptable for a girl to try and start a conversation irl with a guy than it is the other way around.

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Channel

1 month ago

INTP
Aquarius

7w8

7

8

I now understand the anxiety and nervousness of asking someone out 😵 its no joke 😶‍🌫️

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heavymetalz

1 month ago

ISTJ
Pisces

1w9

1

9

I prefer to be asked out.that way I know she is interested.

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Lloyd

1 month ago

ENFJ
Virgo

9w1

9

1

Amen!

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Eric

1 month ago

ISTJ
Cancer

9w1

9

1

Yeah, this girl came up and kissed me on the lips and said she was into me, but I couldn't be too sure if she was just being friendly. Ended up leaving early because the thought of living a comfortable long life with her crossed my mind and she probably wasn't really into me

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Channel

1 month ago

INTP
Aquarius

7w8

7

8

Kinda wanted to ask this too, i recently boldly approached a guy lmao I'm so nervous that I'd be rejected 🤣 Edit: Okay a little update 😂 Its doing well for me 😊i took my chances and got lucky he's interested as well 😭 waaahh😭

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Connor

1 month ago

ISTP
Aries

1w9

1

9

I feel like its difficult for a guy to reject a woman without obvious reasons to do so. For me to reject someone completely without even trying is just plain idiotic. It's a huge confidence booster for guys that don't ask women out usually when they get asked out. Someone that actively seeks my attention will always have a place in my heart.

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Channel

1 month ago

INTP
Aquarius

7w8

7

8

Phew that's relieving to hear😅

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Daniel

1 month ago

INFJ
Cancer

2w3

2

3

... personally, I like to ask a woman out if I feel that it's appropriate; However, due to the current climate of our country, and a significant lack of respect regarding gender recognition & equality; as a Cis Straight Man, I believe we owe Women the choice to make the first move, and respect their individual space - besides it's nice to be asked out, especially if it's unexpected. All I will add is that as adults, we have to exercise kindness, and take rejection in stride. It bothers me a lot when I see other males getting bent out of shape because they didn't get their way, it's like "yo bud, calm down & let the rest of us get on with The Show".

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Ash

1 month ago

INFP
Cancer

5w4

5

4

That's pretty refreshing to read, as a guy I find it tricky sometimes to pose the question. usually, if I really like them, ill ask. It's refreshing when someone asks me out though. In today's age I feel like men are public enemy number one, with good reason but.. Man its annoying 😂

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Deion

1 month ago

INTJ
Libra

5w6

5

6

Girls can ask guys out? Haven't seen it. Lol I'm shy and would prefer a lady asking me out but that has never happened.

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Michael

1 month ago

INFP
Capricorn

2w1

2

1

See I’m completely dumb and don’t know if a girl even knows that I exist unless expressly told so I would prefer to be asked out honestly

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𝓓𝓪𝓻𝓮𝓸𝓷𝓽𝓪𝓮

1 month ago

ENTJ
Cancer

8w7

8

7

I prefer to ask out. Therefore, I can get it out of the way. Tell her how I fell about her. If she feels the same, great. If not, no big deal. I'll most likely move on right there and then, continue on as friends like nothing happened. However, I'll observe her behavior to make sure that she's interested before I ask her out.

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Jacob

1 month ago

INFJ
Libra

6w5

6

5

Its always a nice surprise when a woman asks me out. And leads the convo makes me feel like somebody is genuinely interested in me

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Joachim

1 month ago

INFP
Leo

2w1

2

1

Well, since I simply don't ask others out, I'd say I prefer being asked.

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Kevin

1 month ago

ISFJ
Leo

I rather ask women out. It's only because I travel a lot to fight in the amateurs. The women that approach me are lustful and only want one night stands. I'm not interested in that. That explains why I'm on this friend/dating app. I'm avoiding lustful women to hopeful find a girlfriend to build a future with. I have no idea if these apps work lol

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Danny

1 month ago

ISTJ
Cancer

Prefer? No. Appreciate, yes!

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Shane

1 month ago

ISTJ
Aquarius

5w4

5

4

I don’t catch hints, and usually have 0 idea someone’s interested. Lack of confidence or just completely oblivious? Not sure yet.. but none the less I’d rather someone just saying hey take me to dinner and lay the feelings out there.

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Indra

1 month ago

INFP
Cancer

4w5

4

5

Both, depends on the person personality 😌

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Eric

1 month ago

ISTJ
Cancer

9w1

9

1

Don't think it really matters as long as he was going to ask anyway. In most public places men would prefer you ask to avoid feeling like a weirdo. Guys who are reserved will prefer you ask as well

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Cyanide78

1 month ago

INFJ
Virgo

8w9

8

9

Either way just make an effort or lose out on a potential soul mate. We only live once people

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Corderoy

1 month ago

ENTJ
Leo

Well dating now and days seems to really has changed.men are becoming women meaning looking for something meaningful.maybe not all but most.women are just looking to sow there royal oats.not all but hard to sift through.for me idc if a woman asked me out, I would sure show her all the attention on it can.and hope for the best.chilvary should be both ways..... so it's all good

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Joe

1 month ago

ENFP
Leo

1w9

1

9

Like you said; for good reason, I like for the women to speak up these days. Doesn't mean I still won't try.