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Ross

13 days ago

ENFP
Libra
Ghosting

When did this trend start? What do you think the reasons are? Quick ego boost? Lying? Cheating? Living a double life and just want to see if they are still attractive? Thoughts......

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Dane

13 days ago

INFP
Leo

5w6

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As a chronic ghoster it has nothing to do with ego personally and is more of a desperate desire to get close to someone then I panic that I'm not good enough or that I'm not interesting and on and on... I do it with people I meet in real life too. It's certainly not a healthy way of living but I'm paranoid.

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Ross

13 days ago

ENFP
Libra

At least you can admit it haha. Communication my friend. It goes a very long way. Don't judge yourself or sabatoge something before it even begins. Decide if you want them and let them decide the same thing. Don't make things difficult ❤️

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Dane

13 days ago

INFP
Leo

5w6

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It's certainly something I want to work at. It's why I picked up this dang app again! Thank you for the advice. I'm definitely going to try my best to... y'know... behave like a functional human being! 😂

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Ross

13 days ago

ENFP
Libra

If you're working in a positive direction, that's definitely a positive thing my friend. Go for it 😎

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Matt

13 days ago

ENFJ
Virgo

1w9

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It is easy to disassociate online profiles thinking there isn't a person behind that screen. With the world ever being more inter-connected, I think people keep thinking, "ah whatever" for the slightest reasons. It's actually quite fun to look up studies for these things, iirc one stated that the person didn't like someone spelt "center" as "centre" and that was enough to ghost. Wild

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Kenneth Lim

13 days ago

ENFJ
Libra

1w9

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Women ghost men because they have 100x the number of matches you have. Not saying it's right but that's something you should consider. I don't like it either but if someone doesn't know how to dance, 2 steps forward 1 step back. I pretend they unmatched me until they start messaging again. It's healthier for your mental state. Good luck!

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Scott

13 days ago

INFJ
Virgo

No idea... But I was ghosted after 5 months of deep relationship. Never complained or acted like anything could possibly be wrong then just nothing.

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Ross

13 days ago

ENFP
Libra

Left with nothing to do but wonder huh.... So sad my friend. I know how that is trust me.

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Scott

13 days ago

INFJ
Virgo

Fortunately for me I pay attention, it took me years to figure it out but I did. Not everyone is so lucky and does get stuck wondering. I only wonder how ghosters live with themselves.

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Ross

13 days ago

ENFP
Libra

True true. Red flags are soemthing I'm always waiting for. If they pop up and it's something I won't tolerate, I'm out. Save myself a lot of time.

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Phil

13 days ago

ENFP
Aries

9w8

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More like some people are too much of a wet blanket to be honest when they leave. I'll never begrudge anyone for not feeling a connection with me, as long as they explain themselves.

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Ely

13 days ago

ENTP
Pisces

All of the above darling

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Ross

13 days ago

ENFP
Libra

All of the above and much more haha

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Ely

13 days ago

ENTP
Pisces

I know right! 😉 I just learn to let it go...I guess

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Krystal

13 days ago

ISFJ
Scorpio

6w5

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I think the ghoster wants a quick ego boost, never satisfied and keeps moving on to the next once they got what they wanted from you. The others that do it just don't have the common sense to say well I'm going to go my own way have a nice life once they are done. To each their own.

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Seth R

13 days ago

INFJ
Aries

I think it's because it's pretty easy to just drop something and move on when it's on your phone, because there aee so many other things stealing the short attention span of others

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