Love bombing and ghosting are two manipulative behaviors that often go hand in hand, creating a cycle of emotional highs and lows for the unsuspecting victim. Love bombing occurs when someone showers you with overwhelming affection, attention, and declarations of love very quickly, usually in an online setting. This rapid escalation can make you feel like you've finally found the person you've been searching for, but it's important to recognize that this isn't genuine love or care. Instead, it's a calculated tactic designed to manipulate your emotions and draw you into their web of influence. Once the love bomber feels they've secured your emotional investment, they can easily transition to ghosting. Ghosting is when the individual suddenly and inexplicably cuts off all communication, leaving you confused and hurt. This abrupt withdrawal can be devastating to some individuals, as it is a complete deviation from the intense affection you were initially shown. The truth is, the person who engages in love bombing never truly cared about you; their primary aim was to manipulate and control. This makes it easy for them to disappear without a second thought, often repeating this behavior with multiple victims. It's important to be wary of anyone who showers you with love and affection too quickly, especially in online interactions. Genuine relationships take time to develop and are built on mutual respect and understanding. If someone seems too good to be true, it's worth taking a step back and evaluating their intentions. Protect yourself by setting healthy boundaries and being mindful of the signs, so you can avoid falling into the harmful cycle of love bombing and ghosting. #relationshipadvice #psychology #philosophy #relationship #conversation #love #romance

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Nice post! A lot of this out here, and not only with dating in mind.

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Thank you sir, now i understand.

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Truth💯

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Sounds like what a couple of my exes. I learned the hard way that they never change either unfortunately. Thanks for reminding not to settle for that. 💜

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Thank you for sharing. It's important to be aware of people that like to do this.

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Whoa i think ive been love bomb before..hm good info ty

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Would it be considered love bombing if your ex has you stay over the night after you break up and then the following week, when you're sick and unable to see her because you don't want to get her or her kid sick, she expresses how much she wants to see you and take care of you and also that she wants to tell you something in person, and then when you feel better and ready to meet, she doesn't want to anymore, and then, in a matter of days she's in a relationship with someone new? True story. ... asking for a friend.

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Crying because this just happened recently. I called it too but still believed it 💀

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Very informative..Thank you for sharing 😊

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Excellent post. Thanks for sharing this. Facts. I fully concur. 👉

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i got love bombs but I am the one who ghosted 😶

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Well... that certainly explains a few things

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Awesome post

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I have a saying that I love... And it's probably suitable for you.... "If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change" Just stay positive. Life is good.

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Thank you so much for posting this!

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Thanks for the info 👍

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Guys this could be true thing. But sometimes deeply hurt and insecure people also come and go on and off. If u are not overthinking and just thinking on their side u might find it and be supportive and help them out. U might understand why they are ghosting / keeping us or even everyone away. While what above thing suggests is a true manipulative behaviour which if are simply mindful in our relationship we will easily spot.

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Love bombing is the worst when folks otherwise love for real only to find so many others shying away from love in truth out of response to past traumatic experiences.

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I'm a ghost, but this isn't how I felt about it though. Just saying. ☺

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This is very true but also very wrong on so many levels as jot every guy/lady is the same so can't tag everyone the same tbh with u kwam

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I dont whole heartedly agree with this. Sometimes I shower women with affection because I believe they deserve it, then they become abusive towards me or their personality shifts into something chaotic and I ghost her because when people abuse me in anyway I just leave. I feel like your analysing it from just one perspective.

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