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Chris

4 days ago

INTJ
Aries
Question

Is it harder for a guy to find love, or is it harder for a girl to find love?

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Nick

4 days ago

INFJ
Gemini

You ever look for something and not find it anywhere. And get mad at yourself or others thinking they're messing with you or it's the words fault. Then you look in your own hands and poof your phone or keys were there the whole time. The moment you stopped looking everywhere but the first place that was obvious. The world can't fix your issues, nor can it love you, or help you or anything unless you stop blaming it and expecting it to stop time itself just to tend to you. Love just happens. All on its own. When two people are just ready for it. Or when they're not. No one has power over it or csn force it or control it. It has a voice of its own and is only found. When you stop looking for it.

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Chris

4 days ago

INTJ
Aries

This means a lot. Thank you 😊

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Kim

4 days ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

I think people are quick to say men have a harder time, but finding dates and finding love are totally different. There are many problems that disproportionately affect men over women and vice versa, but I truly believe finding love is probably about as difficult for either sex.

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Chris

4 days ago

INTJ
Aries

I see

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Syl

4 days ago

INFJ
Pisces

2w1

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Neither. It's about timing and situation.

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Chris

4 days ago

INTJ
Aries

Ah okay. Thx^^

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Chris

4 days ago

INTJ
Libra

1w2

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think about it this way: for almost any guy who wants to find their true love, another girl has to want the same thing, so it's probably about as difficult for both

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Syl

4 days ago

INFJ
Pisces

2w1

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Good point.

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0soz3

4 days ago

ISTP
Cancer

6w5

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Depends on the person.

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Chris

4 days ago

INTJ
Aries

True

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Sheekenjoy

4 days ago

INFP
Scorpio

5w6

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It's neither the gender but it's the person

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Chris

4 days ago

INTJ
Aries

True

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Steve

4 days ago

ENFJ
Aries

3w4

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Is it harder for the wolf to catch the chicken or the chicken to run to safety? Either way I'm crippled

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Teri

4 days ago

ESFJ
Leo

1w9

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I think it doesn't matter if your a male or female it all depends on who is lookin for love and who isnt

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Josh

4 days ago

INFP
Taurus

6w7

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I think it's about the same. Most of us are fighting the same big bad, our own insecurities. If you can overcome those the rest of life is pretty easy.

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James

3 days ago

ENFJ
Leo

I think we all struggle to just confess to our crushes. I would love to tell the girl I like how I feel about them, but I know they won't feel the same way

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Taylor

4 days ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

4w3

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I think both tend to find it hard to find love. Women have more options which creates a lot of opportunity for failure, where men aren't given nearly as many chances to fail, but also aren't given the chance at all In the end I think love comes with age and a little bit of luck. Know someone long enough and you've built a substantial amount of respect for eachother, you'll know the spark when you feel it

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Christian

3 days ago

INTJ
Taurus

guys 100% 💀

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Christy

4 days ago

INTJ
Leo

Women get more dates but don't ever get love.

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Joachim

3 days ago

INFP
Leo

2w1

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Well... No, I don't think so. Women might have a larger pool of options available, but at the same time that doesn't mean they actually find their one. The struggle is simply different.

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Christopher

3 days ago

ENTJ
Sagittarius

They both have it hard in different ways. Men have to go through numerous rejections on average before finding someone interested in them. Most women can sit back and will have guys come to them throughout their life. Men do their "sorting" up front, meaning they only approach girls they're interested in in the first place. Women can't choose who goes up to them so they have more people they aren't interested in try to start something with them. Men have to work harder to find something in the first place, but once they've found it they usually can have a very solid relationship with any woman who reciprocates his interest. Women have to put in less effort to make something happen, but on average have a harder time finding someone who wants anything beyond a short term arrangement.

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☀🌿 𝘓𝘶𝘤𝘢𝘴 🌿☀

3 days ago

INTP
Sagittarius

1w9

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