I see more and more, women who want men to act like a gentleman, man up, and be chivalrous. If this is the case, why is there such a thing as "Toxic Masculinity"? These two things are mutually exclusive, in my opinion. Would it even be safe for someone to put in their profile that they wish to avoid "Toxic Femininity"? Don't get me wrong, I absolutely admire a woman that can change a tire, build a bookshelf, drive a tractor or a stick shift, it gives me tingles, but only if she is a loving caregiver, has nurturing soul, and isn't emotionally distant. Can we dispense with the labels, at least as far as the courtship dance is concerned?

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Wouldn't toxic femininity be the opposite? If toxic masculinity is never showing emotion or weakness, hating all things feminine, hemophobia, untempered anger, inability to be gentle and tender, always in control... wouldn't toxic femininity be hyper sensitivity, meekness, total submission, unwillingness to do any task not deemed domestic, fear of basically everything, obsession with appearing feminine and attractive, completely dependant on men? (edited)

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