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Posted Thursday, September 12, 2024
1mo
ISTP
Taurus
Am I in the wrong here?
I was talking to this girl and as I was getting to know her she was talking about her best friend. Turns out here best friend is her ex (from like 10 years ago). They hang out all the time and all. Which I was kinda getting over. But then she was mentioning staying over at a friends house (a guy that's not her best friend). They don't have any like dating or sexual history. But idk it just makes me feel weird? I don't have any best friends that are exes and I NEVER stay over a girls house for any reason. Is it just me that feels weird about it? Edit - She does work a lot so we don't talk as much little snippets here and there. Also we aren't in a relationship so do I really have any say or bring up my feelings? (edited)
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1mo
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Well you're just talking at the moment, doesn't seem like you've started a relationship, have you? If not, it doesn't really matter, it's not like she's cheating on anyone, even if something does happen, but that would be assuming. Plus, you're free to ask her questions, if you're not comfortable enough to pursue a relationship, that's your prerogative.
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Bryan
1mo
ENFP
Scorpio
Your own feelings are valid. It's your actions that might be brought into question. I would also say, don't look to outside feelings on your situation to justify your own feelings or any future actions. Instead, ask yourself if you are okay with a partner who does x and y. If the answer is no, you can walk away from that situation after having a conversation with them about it, if you have/want to. And if the answer is yes... Well you might not be here asking if it was just you who felt that way. Her behavior is not a red flag. It just might not be what you look for in a partner. (edited)
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Cynthia
1mo
INTJ
Scorpio
She doesn't deserve you
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Frank Toth
1mo
ENTJ
Libra
People are allowed to have friends of the opposing gender, my guy. Guys and gals can laugh, hang out, hell, even cuddle while still being friends. We've just been indoctrinated to believe that any form of intimacy outside of family has the potential for romance, or is romantic in nature, especially in the west. Which is really unfortunate, cause humans need a lot more tactile interaction than we normally get. You're allowed your feelings, of course, but she's her own person, just like you are.
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Elle
1mo
ISTJ
There is something to be said if her friends are all or tend to be guys instead of girls...
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