Posted Friday, July 3, 2026
16d
ENTP
Aries
1My Struggle
I learned a lot about emotional intelligence, spirituality, the language of love, the psychology of love, and the language of anger (where many people don't know why we often fight with our partners and what causes it). But I haven't found someone I'm looking for or loves me the way I learned. Is there something wrong with all my theories? I tried to be a patient and understanding person but it ended in neglect and betrayal. But when I became evil they started pointing at my face.
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Javi
16d
INTP
Sagittarius
1I would argue that is unfair to the other person to be put under the expectation of what you consider love to be, that is based on what books may be telling you about what love should be. First of all love is what you want it to be. Secondly, love is grown, it does not magically happen. Love are the little moments that stay forever, the way that they show up for you, and you show up for them. Love is there in the toughest of moments for each other and chosing each other over the adversaries. Love is felt, not described. Give yourself time to be loved and time to love the other person. Of course without sacrificing your boundaries.
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Victoire
16d
INTJ
Capricorn
Theories are not bad. The biggest problem is people. Human beings are complicated. You need to find people who share the same values as you. Learn before getting into a relationship. It's about finding common ground; otherwise, it can get very complicated.
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Jax
16d
INTJ
Pisces
6People just aren't aware enough yet.
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Demi
15d
ENTP
Pisces
3Most people are bad at love. They don’t know how to communicate, they don’t understand repair, and they are carrying attachment wounds they don’t even see. If you want someone to meet you there, you have to be willing to help them learn, or hold out a LONG time for someone who has read the same stuff you have.
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Владислав
15d
ESFJ
Aquarius
Still ahead!
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Sławomir
11d
ISTJ
Taurus
From theory to practice is a long road, start by applying what you have learned in everyday life.
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Paola
15d
INFJ
Aries
If you are not chosen, you leave; if they close the door, then you don't knock again. It's not about being patient and understanding; emotional intelligence is not about that. It's also about knowing when to leave where you are not loved, even if you love. Sometimes it's not about the other person, but about you. Why should I be understanding and patient where they are communicating that they want nothing? Intensity is not love, and a liking is not either. Loving yourself is also knowing when to leave where you are not respected and valued.
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