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Grace

1 month ago

ESFJ
Scorpio

7w6

7

6

Do looks matter when it comes to dating?
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Derek

1 month ago

INTJ
Leo

Looks will draw you in, the personality gets you to stay

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Christopher Allen

1 month ago

INTP
Sagittarius

6w5

6

5

Couldn't have said it any better myself. Looks are what make you notice them (generally), but it is the personality that causes you to fall for them.

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Levi

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

This exactly. Looks after learning the personality are just a bonus after that

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PocketGoblin 💚

1 month ago

INFJ
Aries

1w2

1

2

For those that feel primary attraction, it absolutely does. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to certain physical traits as long as someone doesn't use their preferences as a weapon against those that don't fit their ideal type. Whether that happens on a societal level (media, product marketing, etc.) or on an individual level, it's not compassionate or even proper to push preferences on other people. 🤷‍♀️ Plus I just think it's weird people feel that kind of behavior is acceptable. For me? Still yes, but I may be thinking about it differently since I don't really feel attracted to physical attributes. However, if someone's appearance shows lack of general self care/hygiene (negligent skincare, hair care, teeth brushing, general signs of a ton of dehydration, signs of substance abuse/alcoholism, etc.), I'm far less likely to ever talk to them in a romantic sense. (Idk if that counts or if people just consider hygienic as a trait outside of the physical, but that's how I personally see it)

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Teemu

1 month ago

INFJ
Leo

9w1

9

1

Precisely this. - Some people are and always will be attracted to aesthethic beauty. Some people are desensitized to visual aesthetics and only light up through inner beauty, but are still picking up cues of e.g. substance/alcohol abuse which can be a major red flag. Some people get desensitized to aesthetics after they gain age, and that happens naturally. - This is all however dependant on the individual. I haven't had a crush on anyone aesthethically since I was 8 years old. Only on what's in the inside.

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Boo

1 month ago

ENTP
Sagittarius

Effort matters a lot more than just looks. :)

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Orchid

1 month ago

INFJ
Taurus

6w5

6

5

💯💯💯

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aviv

1 month ago

INFP
Aquarius

4w5

4

5

yes. i can't date someone i'm not attracted to yk? but their personality matters too obv

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Sh

1 month ago

INTP
Sagittarius

Yes. I have to want to kiss the person I'm dating. Otherwise, what's the point?

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Tim

1 month ago

ENFJ
Libra

I'd be surprised if anyone truly thought otherwise. How could you be physically intimate with someone you didn't find physically attractive? I do understand everyone's sense of what they find physically attractive is different, but I just find it odd to think you would be intimate if you're not attracted to the person.

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Mephi

1 month ago

ENTJ
Virgo

it just creates the first impression but beauty of character is what stays forever

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Matthew

1 month ago

INFP
Pisces

6w7

6

7

You're attracted to the face and body. But you fall in love with the person behind it.

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Roxana

1 month ago

ISFP
Scorpio

2w1

2

1

My opinion is that looks are important at first but personality and values will definitely matter way more for a durable relationship

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Rodrigo Esteves

1 month ago

INFP
Virgo

It does until the other person starts speaking

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Joe

1 month ago

ENFP
Leo

1w9

1

9

Looks is part of it. Normally an initiator. They're not everything, but they matter.

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Dash

1 month ago

INFP
Scorpio

4w5

4

5

Looks play a part in the big picture. But, I think people place too much merit on physical attractiveness, overall.

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Joseph Dodson

1 month ago

INFJ
Gemini

Personally with me no you can look like supermodel but if we have nothing to talk about what the point

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Kevin

1 month ago

ISFJ
Leo

A little bit for me. When I see a woman from across the room, and If I find her physical attractive, it creates the spark of interest to go over there and I want to get to know her. Obviously, looks aren't the top priority when it comes to love. Someone's personality is more important. Someone can be beautiful on the outside and ugly within. I fall in love with the person. If she's a good person, who helps others, it makes it easy to fall for her. I would never fall in love or lust over physical attraction alone. I have no interest in that. I would like to get married one day and have children. I couldn't do that with someone who had an ugly, hateful personality. I don't care how beautiful they are.

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Danielle

1 month ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

3w4

3

4

For me looks matter for the initial draw in, however you're personality can take you from an 8 to 1 real quickly and it works both ways. Someone I wouldn't initially find attractive becomes attractive when they are a good person.

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Pat

1 month ago

INFJ
Virgo

4w5

4

5

Some people no. Many people, yes.

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Zac

1 month ago

ENTP
Aries

2w3

2

3

To some extent

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Geovani

1 month ago

INTP
Taurus

Most people will fall for looks, for me will be their personality

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Josh

1 month ago

ESFJ
Gemini

To some. Some believe they should have a partner that is equally attractive as they are. Some believe that they are to fat, to ugly, ect. So they choose that so they won't have to find someone else. Me I prefer she be attractive but you know what they say "a 5 will keep you alive" .

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