Ghosting??

There was no reciprocity there. Glad you chose yourself 😎

It does, you did the right thing

Yes omg!!! Someone gets it

Lol so you decided to stop answering all together??

@Bonolo after she was rude and said I am playing damn games etc... I haven't got energy for all of it...

@Bonolo or I am often ghosting people unintentionally like I have different priorities and I totally forgot to answer somebody... and if they write too much I mute their chats... but it isn't like ghosting forever..

@Alexandr 🐺 lol I think they write alot because they are hurt

@Alexandr 🐺 good for you. Better to walk away with dignity then get into a pointless argument.

@Bonolo yeah, but I am introvert I need time for myself sometimes. I am trying to explain it to them, but...

@Alexandr 🐺 you really don't like to explain yourself I guess

@Bonolo I am really trying but sometimes it is pointless or I hope that ppl will catch my vibe and sense in a process 😁 in a person it works better 😂

@Alexandr 🐺 catch and sense? I'd be so frustrated having to deal with someone like that. I for one like a person who communicates. Like tell me when you're busy. I won't go flooding your inbox yet you've told me you're busy....but if I were to sense?I'd go insane

@Alexandr 🐺 this seems like a good example of 2 sides to every story. Though you should know that you made an impact to their life and they feel like they can come to you to speak their mind (that may not be the case but it is quite often) all in all i guess you could meet each other half way and you can try to find a little time to give them your attention and they could come to understand that you may not always be available. Hope i make sense 😅

@Bonolo that is why I am learning to talk more and express everything I have in mind and friends are starting to guess me as an extroverted person. I am just realy empathic person and I used to talk only with introverts and they are too pretty much empaths and are talking not so much. But some people are writing to you even if you tell them that you are busy... 🤯

@Rahul yes you are right, but some people are selfish and could not understand it even if you tell it to them 100 times...

@Alexandr 🐺 introvert or not, once you click with someone you talk to them about every thing little or big

@Rahul you make sense 👏🏿 👌 if only it was that easy for to understand one another

@Alexandr 🐺 hmm, that is also true, that's when you can either try to help them understand or just keave it up to them to think what they want to think. You can't do much more after a certain point

@Alexandr 🐺 in that case I believe such people can overwhelm me too

@Bonolo really appreciate it, and yes but unfortunately we live in a world where people want to identify as a cat 😂😂😂 you just can't do anything about it. Also, has anyone seen that video?

@Rahul a cat huh? I guess you mean a cat 🤣 noi haven't seen the video

@Rahul yeah cringe 😂😵‍💫

@Alexandr 🐺 exactly 😂😂😂 im glad a platform exists for sane minded people 🙏

How long does it take for you to usually tell that neh! This conversation is nonsensical?

@Bonolo when all they talk about is toxic positivity and trying to be smart. You get the vibe from the first message usually.

@Lea that's true actually. Most times we detect it so early but hope it will get better

@Bonolo and we give the person a chance to redeem himself but it keeps going downhill so I'm

@Lea 🤣 🤣 please

H for hectic 😆

Yes!

Me neither

If only everyone was this transparent

The nerve! Was he expecting you to wait?? Tf? Testing what?? Is he some kind of examiner?

@Bonolo I waited at the date place (which was the mall of America) for a couple hours. He didn't show up. When I text him if he was running late he didn't respond. Like text ghosting so a much different level then ghosting a person on the first date as a "test"

@Araya what the heck 😳

@Bonolo I honestly think this person had bigger issues. But I know not everyone who ghosts are that terrible. Some because of anxiety. Others because conversation are hard and don't know how to start or begin another. I just had the worse experience. Because the person was a bit unhinged

And if they were to come back???

@Bonolo then it depends on weather or not you want them back, and i decided I didn't. It wasn't an easy decision. I repeatedly felt the urge to message them just to ask how are you and how have you been. But i realised that im better off without them

@Rahul I really can imagine how hard it was but also kudos for you for defeating that urge

@Bonolo Appreciate it! Hope i could help you :)

Do who did the actual ghosting??

@Bonolo she did after i unwillingly rejected her

@Enrico unwillingly???

@Bonolo yup, i hadn't realized her signals

@Enrico ohhhhhh

That was alot of pressure on you!

@Bonolo it is especially during the dating / getting to know eachother portion. Just screams "trouble "

@Cody enlightening!

It doesn't qualify as ghosting if you communicate your disinterest

@Bonolo you'd think so, but that's what she accused me of!

Good riddance!!

@Bonolo 🪦 ☠️

That was much.