When you're gaining interest in someone, what are some "unpopular" things you look for, instead of just their appearance, finances, personality, etc. For me, it's their taste in music. It says SO MUCH about a person. Hands down if I can't stand your taste in music, I'm probably not your type, lmao. Like whatever music you want, but if we're not in the car bumping together, it kills the vibe. For ex: if you prefer new school rap over the old school style, it's a BIG NO for me, NO EXCEPTIONS 😂

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Omigosh, I'm so glad you mentioned taste in music, because you're so right! They say eyes are the window to the soul, but I'm finding more and more that music tastes is such a revealing aspect to who they are, deep down under any small-talk and chit-chat! Anytime I think I 'clicked' with someone, we share playlists, and suddenly I find we actually don't vibe at all! I don't know if this quality is underrated or not, but I think their capacity to handle being alone is a very valuable quality to have. A lot of guys and girls that I drift away from have an almost pathological need to have someone in their life, no matter how toxic they are (themselves or the partner). It's honestly sad, and I wish they can find a way to be whole on their own someday. I see that so many of the best relationships are made of people who are already ok with being single, but have found someone that 'supplements' their life, instead of 'completing' it.

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I agree that taste in music says a lot about a person! I have to say though, that I definitely have close friends whose playlists I don't really vibe with lol. Not to say I can't stand them but it's not something I'd put up myself. As for an underrated important quality, I think the ability to form deep friendships. A lot of people can't seem to share vulnerabilities with friends and see that as something reserved for a romantic partner, which is something I try to understand but honestly puts me off. Intimacy exists in more than one way.

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