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Mandy

14 days ago

INTP
Libra

6w5

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Wasted time

I'm not wasting my time on people who make me do everything anymore. If you live in another state and we cannot meet in person for a while, effort needs to be made in other ways. I'm not gonna be waiting weeks for a simple phone call or something. I used to not even wait a few days. I should go back to that, because clearly if I'm not making a huge deal about something, people are thinking they don't have to put in that effort. Nah, I'm just waiting patiently. If my energy isn't matched, I will ghost you πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

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Phil

14 days ago

ENFP
Aries

9w8

9

8

Or, an alternative, just politely say exactly why you're going to stop talking to someone instead of ghosting them? Maybe then you'll help to create the world which you wish to see, and these fellas will learn something :)

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Mandy

14 days ago

INTP
Libra

6w5

6

5

If I tell someone I prefer calls over texting and they never call, I am going to ghost them. End of story πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

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Mandy

14 days ago

INTP
Libra

6w5

6

5

They'll learn their lesson when I'm gone

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Phil

14 days ago

ENFP
Aries

9w8

9

8

You overestimate the learning power of men πŸ˜‚

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Mandy

14 days ago

INTP
Libra

6w5

6

5

They can find someone else to learn their lesson from then. I'm tired of teaching men. I want one that has already been properly trained πŸ€ͺπŸ˜‚

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Phil

14 days ago

ENFP
Aries

9w8

9

8

Haha that's fair 🀣 they do exist!

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AJ

13 days ago

INTJ
Pisces

2w1

2

1

"They'll learn their lesson when I'm gone" Yikes.. maybe this attitude is why they wont call you.

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Mandy

13 days ago

INTP
Libra

6w5

6

5

Or I don't have that attitude until I'm gone. I shouldn't have to wait a month for a phone call. My attitude is completely warranted πŸ–•πŸ˜ at that point, I don't even want them to call me, so idc how they feel about my attitude 🀣

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Lluvia

14 days ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

Girl, you are doing the right thingπŸ‘

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Bruce

13 days ago

ESFJ
Gemini

Assuming you really are making the effort....sure.

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Mandy

13 days ago

INTP
Libra

6w5

6

5

You always gotta say something. Not like you have a chance anyway πŸ˜‚

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Bruce

13 days ago

ESFJ
Gemini

Hope you're well Mandy. I find you entertaining. You make me think

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Rafi

13 days ago

INTJ
Sagittarius

1w2

1

2

It's so funny how online dating is such a frustrating experience for both genders. As a guy, I only try to match with girls I think we can get along with and when it happens I ask them something off their profile/bio and they don't even respond. Guess that's just the world and etiquette we operate on nowadays πŸ€·πŸ½β€β™‚οΈ

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