I think bout dating irl more frequently these days

It's just the way i am.. No shortcomings

@Viovio Well, I did say "things you view as shortcomings". And you said you have so many socializing problems. That's something you view as a shortcoming. Once you put problem..... It's a shortcoming. You also said you have no strategy for living. Honestly, you phrased everything as if you see it as a problem. So, if you don't view them as shortcomings. You are going to have to edit this whole thing....

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@Austin I think it was more about just accepting who they are. Love is about compromise, but it's also about willingness to accept their flaws if you see them as such. Especially if they are "flaws" that arent harming anyone or they could potentially grow from. I think they ^ just want a lover who stays and accepts them for the way they are and really sees them. Even if they see some of these things as flaws, they'd still be accepting of them anyway.

@Cassie Yeah that's my point uwu Thanks💗✨️

@Cassie Yeah, my comment wasn't writing in reference to that. It was about her possible reasoning behind writing the post and what she might do to fix shortcomings. Shortcomings which she didn't label as shortcomings even though the definition of shortcomings is a fault to meet a standard. And now because you replied to me, instead of posting this to her.... She is going to use this as an opportunity to skirt my comment. So, really appreciate that 👍😮‍💨

@Austin Why does it matter so much to you the reason they wrote the post? They were just venting. Neither positive nor negative things about themselves. Maybe some of them are by definition shortcomings. But please remember this is a global app and not everyone's first language is English as well. There is no need to get this snarky.

@Cassie You replied to me about something I didn't even write about. And now you are talking to me like you didn't even make that mistake. And then you want to ascertain my motivations for a posed question in her own post 😮‍💨 And as far as language goes.... Boo does translate. So writing the post would not be a problem which is what my comment was about. Now, as for any snarky sensation that you are picking up from the comment at the end of my reply to you. I honestly can't help what you feel. I wrote words atuned to your actions.

@Austin Bro you were telling them to edit their post because you didn't understand what they were saying. 😂 you I was telling you what they actually meant in this post. It wasn't about fixing what they listed. It was about their potential lover staying and accepting them. They didn't view them as shortcomings. So maybe they don't take them as shortcomings, or English isn't their first language and they don't know the definition of that word reading it in English. Either way, idk why you want to nit pick on their post. Just scroll away. No you were actually being passive aggressive tho. 😂😂 Anyway bye I did my best to try to explain the poster's intentions ✌️

@Cassie I told her she would have to edit her post if she didn't categorize shortcomings as shortcomings. You replied motivational words to a comment that had nothing to do with me. Literally nothing in your comment had anything to do with mine other than the fact that you thought it did, bro 😮‍💨 And I've already covered the app translates. The only person here who doesn't understand what's going on.... Is you. I wasn"t here to emotionally inspire someone. She had a posed question at the end of her comment and I thought I'd drop a tip. And the only one who is being passive aggressive is you. Because you didn't know who you were talking to and you apparently don't know about the apps features. So leave, please leave. I'm sure you do that alot. Because I'm guessing this isn't your first time doing something like this.

@Cassie And before you write another comment ignoring the faults in your argument. Actually look with your eyes. Because the fact that you still talked about people not speaking English is a dead giveaway to the fact that you aren't paying attention. Hell, the fact the you first replied to me is a giveaway of that. But it's obvious that you aren't. You are just typing the same non-sensical argument at me.

@Austin I guess I have to reply since ur arguing so bad and won't leave it be. I never intended to argue with you. You told op unwarranted advice to fix their post. And I told you what op originally intended with this post by explaining to you that they were merely wanted a partner to stay with them. Op even replied saying yes that was the main point. Acceptance. Not what you wanted to label as shortcomings. It's just a bit weird to judge someone and tell them to edit their post because you didn't agree with the labeling. I wasn't being motivational, just explaining to you what op desired and wanted to focus on. They wanted support and reassurance as well. It was pretty clear. I know you mentioned translation, but I've talked to many people overseas no English speakers who still don't recognize words through translation and context. But that is besides the point. Not everyone wants advice. Especially when you tell them they're wrong basically and to edit their post. They wanted support and understand and to focus on their desire for someone to stay in their lives and love them for them.

@Cassie We're not arguing I won this a long time ago when you replied to me for no reason other than you had no idea who to talk to. As for unwarranted advice? I gave her a tip that barely amounted to a sentence because problems by definition are things people don't want to have. As for viovio responding to you. Of course she did. You gave her a motivational spiel. I was correcting her grammar. And it's not labeling. This is grammar. And you were being motivationally sappy. That wasn't an explanation. That was you getting lost in whatever feelings you have about this whole thing. I'm not here for feelings. I was here to shortly answer a posed question and offer a short tip. Instead, I have to respond to all your replies for what feels like an eternity..... Because you want to feel better about making a mistake which instead of just acknowledging and moving on.... You have turned into a stage production about feelings 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 You are not going to feel better about this. You already lost this thing about an hour ago. And I will keep responding if you do. And if you try to get the last word in and run like you did. I will also respond. And bring this emotional nonsense right back to the facts which I aptly named. I won't reply if you don't. But I will if you do. And you know you don't have a leg to stand on.

@Austin Why are you doing this? Are you really okay? Your anger and narcissism is actually concerning. It's not an argument meant to be won. I was just telling you why op wrote the post because your "advice" was unnecessary. I wasn't "out to get you". I was just better interpreting the first few words of the post, if you'll read them again, talks about having someone who will stay. "Not here for feelings?" Why the hell are you on this app if you're not going to act human? Again, people like to rant and guess what? Share feelings. ADVICE IS NOT ALWAYS WARRENTED. Again, why do you feel like people want to hear ur advice? Life doesn't revolve arou you. There was no mistake because I was never making an argument in the first place. Not everyone is out to get you either. I was just explaining something to you and you didn't like that and now you don't like me because you turned it into an argument you feel like you have to win now. Which is sad. It's sad how much anger you have and how much you're throwing out insults and making up things to judge me on. I'm not trying to win a pointless argument you started, but hoped you'd see reason and my intentions of simply explaining something that you took the wrong way and attacked me for. I guess not. I'll be the bigger person and step awy from your ego. Good luck in life and I hope you heal

Awwwww hugssss xD

U can use google lens sir xD

@Viovio I absolutely hate when people say to Google something.

@Darren And i absolutely hate it when someone doesn't google anything and asks it :3

That's good thing to improve something ofc. But in this case i have to say i lived like this for 23 years and there's still no major changes in my personality. I can say i changed alot but im still the same lil 17 years old girl :")