Boys/men are desperate to have a girlfriend or someone to date....mostly But there are not many girls/women who are desperate to have boyfriends. With this mindset, women get more swipes and matches than men. They maybe afraid to swipe right, sometimes, thinking if the person had already right swiped them. Women get more alert and start looking for soulmate kind of features in these profiles and right swipe carefully. Women doesn't feel lonely, cause any men or most men are ready to date them. But its different for men. Even if we right swipe all the girls, which we shouldn't, there is very less chance of getting matched. But still we hope for the day of match. I usually right swipe based on the profile, images, about section and interests. But sometimes i get bored and right swipe all. Even though i got some matched, they really dont say a word. Its just 'hi and hru', after that no one talks. Cause i am an introvert, still most of the time i start the conversation with hi. Please comment on this and give me some views so that i can understand more. Thank you! #relationship #love #romance #relationshipadvice (edited)

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The issue is the desperation. Remove that desperation from your life and man trust me! you'll see more opportunities come ya way. No one, I literally mean, nobody is attracted to desperation.. you gotta be open and welcoming to everyone. Look, no girl will suddenly become your girlfriend overnight. It takes time, resilience and patience. Let's focus on making friends first.

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Why are you using apps that are unfair towards you? It’s your choice to be mistreated

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No, it's not unfair...Think of it like an interview. What's the likely outcome a woman is willing to hire a man with no experience, can't lead, doesn't know what to do in tough situations that won't be a burden or is desperate and begs to be hired in comparison to a man who has those skills, is useful, has high level in communication and respectfully isn't afraid of walking away, knowing there's other opportunities? His chances are low. Like a job interview she will test him, seeing his resume and how he holds himself within conversation. But it should be that he also needs to test her and convince her, she wants him more than the other way around. Often it takes a man to fail hundreds of times and a ton of research before getting that right. Does he ask these questions to himself like A) Does he have standards/boundaries and is willing to walk away when she doesn't match his preference? B) Does he even test her? Or how often does he unmatch her knowing she's only either going to speak in small talk or with few words when he attempts to carry the conversation? Is his motive or end goal of dating a woman, to pursuing towards marriage and wanting a family with her? Or he hasn't even consider that and is living the moment of just dating someone....anyone just because? How much does he know about love language? Does he have self control in gratification? Like a comedian, can he speak sarcasm, references, puns? And or isn't afraid to speak his mind? Can he walk up to a random woman and ask for her number being comfortable of rejection? He has to put a lot of effort into himself.

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There are alot of woman who want men. They are just very picky on who they want. When they say they dont it's Cap they are having trouble finding one that they actually like. If a movie star or a music artist had a dating app these girls saying they happy being single would message him.

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That's what makes it different, girls choose who they like while boys choose whoever available around. And in conversation start with something words of interest it's either her interest. Don't answer with one word question, and ask questions that is not answerable by one word or yes and no.

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Don't run after people who try to run away from you. Work on yourself in ways which puts you apart from the rest. People(girls here, your case) like difference for attention.

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