Here’s the golden rule of online dating: ❗️Your first message should create an “emotional hook” that makes it impossible not to reply. ❗️ ✨ THE FORMULA Specific Observation ➕ Open Question ➕ Touch of Humor When you nail this, you’re not just starting a conversation—you’re creating a connection. 📩 THE SCRIPT: - “I noticed in your photo you have a Golden Retriever. My best friend says they’re like Labradors with a college degree 😂 What’s the smartest thing yours has done?” - ...<let her reply> - “So what his/her name? And more importantly, does it approve of strangers, or should I send treats first?” WHY THIS WORKS❓ It contains 4 key ingredients: ☝️. Specific Observation - This shows you paid attention. It’s flattering and makes your match feel special. ✌️. Open Question - Avoid yes/no questions. Give them room to share something interesting, whether it’s a story, opinion, or fun fact. 🤟. Touch of Humor - A playful tone makes you seem approachable and fun. Bonus points if it makes them laugh! 🖖. Easy to Respond Don’t make them work too hard. The goal is to invite, not interrogate. THE ULTIMATE SECRET Let them shine ✨ People love talking about themselves, especially about their passions and interests. Ask them something that lets them show off their personality, knowledge, or quirky side. You’ll stand out as someone who’s genuinely interested in them.

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Wilhelm

10mo

INTP

Cancer

Not doing that. Guys usually have to send hundreds of messages in hope of getting a few replys.

Baljeet

10mo

INFP

Cancer

This

10mo

INFP

Libra

Hi, I have to say this. I couldn't drive or walk.after seeing this. Whatever is coming infront me is feel different after this Becuase

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10mo

ESTP

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10mo

INTP

Leo

Hi❌ instead⭕ (jk😂😂

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23h

ISFJ

Sagittarius

Age

Why do younger men want to date an older woman? What is the point in it? Women same for you, why do younger women like older men? (edited)

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Hazel

ISFJ

Cancer

she.

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Allison

14h

INFJ

Libra

About right.

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Cece Ann

20h

INTP

Cancer

Dating

I find it funny how I swipe left and it says I missed a match.🙅‍♀️ Im 36 years old. Im never dating someone younger than me. Cause what if I wanna call the guy "Daddy"? It be awkward as heck to say that to a 23 year old. Just my opinion.

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Bharath

10mo

ISFJ

Sagittarius

My recent pic😊

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ISTP

If your relationship/dating state is one of hospital dept, which one would it be?

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ISTP

If your relationship/dating style is an amusement park

Which category of rides or rooms will you be?

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Muhammad

10mo

ESTP

Capricorn

moo

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Cioo

INTP

Leo

Question

Do you think long distance relationship is works??

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Tina

14h

INFP

Libra

Thoughts?

What are your thoughts of interracial relationships? Does it truly matter what ethnicity your partner is?

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Avrielle C.M.

14h

INTJ

Aries

Long or Short?🤔🤔🤔

Grow it back or stay in short???

Long Hair

Short Hair

31 votes

1/2

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Cece Ann

18h

INTP

Cancer

Dating

So im thinking of bringing a random item when I go on a date.. one time I brought a guy a Potato. 🤣❤️ He laughed but now he can use it.

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Fitry

17h

INTJ

Sagittarius

question

please answer this (edited)

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ENTJ

Sagittarius

Narcissistic Behavior 🙌

Have you tried it? 😅🤣

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Moonie

10h

INFP

💚

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Erin

ENFP

Scorpio

What about virtual speed dating?!?!

Who would be in? Or creating a dating event, is that allowed?

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Vanchit

INFP

Thought you should date an introvert (me) 👻

But I love alot of text tho

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Michael

21h

ISFJ

Communication is only hard for somebody that don't want be with you.

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Tina

INFP

Libra

Dating question

What is the most important thing about dating someone?

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David

19h

INTP

Gemini

Dating in your 30's

So why is dating in your 30's the equivalent to being either a reminder of someone that hurt who your trying to date or completely disregarded with no chance.

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Sam

10h

ISFP

Libra

Is it just me?

I wonder if it's how i have set my personality, or maybe most girls dismiss me cause of certain set "standards." Am i missing something? Or should i just start going out more often? I'm genuinely curious

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Devon

INTJ

Leo

Why do women hesitate so much to admitting when it comes to dating they want a guy who's been around the block at least a little bit?

Like why is it most women have trouble admitting that if they had a choice they would much rather date a guy who's had both romantic AND sexual experience versus a man with little to zero experience in even ONE of them? And by comparison guys have no trouble admitting at least among other men and... read more

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Michael

ISFJ

I cannot afford another bond with the wrong soul.

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Nes

10h

ENTJ

Libra

Looking for a date in NYC

Looks like im on a count down. My family has decided this holiday season is the bring home a girlfriend or else deadline. If I don’t show up with someone by then. My dads already plotting an arrange marriage in two years. So basically, I’m one Xmas away from Turing into a Kdrama story line.