Just wondering when you feel alone what helps?

Question

How do you cope
When life gets hard and you literally have no one what helps you cope what helps you get through the day I dont want anyone to feel as alone as I do. 
  And if you do I hope you know that your life matters and that you matter and this world needs more people like you so please keep your chin up and keep going no matter what. Your not alone ❤️

Will · Accepted Answer

Awwww I was commenting on this same scenario before.  It’s hard as a lot of the time I do feel alone.

I don’t want you feeling that isolated either, if you ever want to chat, feel free to message me

Caelan · Answer

I am not just alone, i was abandoned and betrayed by those i believed were close to me. For anyone who is just lonely, find people you click with. Go on dates. Go to social gatherings where you can meet someone. But for someone like me, it's no longer a question of loneliness, but of being deceived. I used to feel just lonely and i wish i could go back to that feeling. There are worse fates then loneliness. I do hope you find someone to make you feel better, and may nobody ever experience what i just explained.

Joe · Answer

Write music. Call your Mother. Get a dog.

Ivaan · Answer

Wue bonitas palabras 🫂✨ no todos se toman una parte para poner algo así de lindo 🙌🏻

JakkNJillHAUL · Answer

name of Jesus

John · Answer

Im in this exact same boat as of late. Feeling very lonely

Javi · Answer

Just put some Sepultura on and go run

SilentCharm · Answer

too old to talk

Heath · Answer

I usually play a game or watch some videos to take my mind away from the thoughts. I don't know about where you live, but where I live we have phone services that people can call to talk to someone when they feel down. Maybe try joining a community group or similar?

Uwe · Answer

Wenn icv mit jemanden sprechen möchte ist mein Ansprechpartner mein Onkel err ist mein  bester Freund und wen  ich null Bock auf jemanden Han ist alk mein Begleiter und ja es hilft mir .

Ryan · Answer

I've been isolated and alone my entire life, so for some reason I feel uniquely qualified to contribute to this. I don't really rely on people for my comfort. I've spent a lot of time in therapy learning different techniques and skills. But basically I just process the pain alone. I distract myself with my own hobbies and interests. I listen to music or meditate or play games or learn something new. The distraction really depends on the individual. Sometimes you do need help though, there are public forums all over for you to speak your mind and get it off your chest. But I highly encourage you to find distractions and tasks to take that energy and transmute it into something new. Something as simple as a walk in the park can remind you of the beauty in life and the constant ebbs and flows of change.

Dai · Answer

A mi me ayuda rezar. Si lo estoy pasando mal o no se por donde tirar, rezar y hablar con Dios me ayuda a encontrar la fuerza para superar los obstaculos que se me pongan delante.

Angel · Answer

😍

Facu · Answer

Diosito me ayuda

Cody · Answer

I think the only solution to loneliness is to get with positive influences who don't make you feel alone.

Stefano · Answer

Se ti senta sola puoi parlare con noi qui sull'app, tutti a volte ci sentiamo soli e abbiamo bisogno di una mano ^^

Michele · Answer

Im single from many years at this point, I have friends for all my social “needs” and about the alone time… well I try to do things I like, I try to stay good and happy with myself and I’ve my little garden to take care of.

I think it’s mandatory, even in a relationship, to be able to be happy and in peace with yourself

Seth · Answer

I'm completely isolated and alone, and I'm okay with that. My kiddo is likely moving out next year so it'll get a little more lonely, but I've resigned myself to this inevitability. I don't make friends easily, and partners come around even fewer than friends. I guess I'll just have to see how I feel once the kiddo does move out.

Jason 龙 · Answer

Kind words... but why 🤔? 
Self love and self care have served me through this horrid loneliness, but if I let my guard down that's when I get hurt. Nice try. 
Aquarius huh... Now I know what to be cautious of, at least you're not a Virgo...

Lamar · Answer

What I do is go for a hike with a good friend. Just talk.  After sit out side and listen to music.

PACMAiNi · Answer

Remembering why I choose to be alone. I step out my bubble forgetting why I had it in the first place and then the veil drops.when your the only one that chooses brake away from the herd all you can do is watch until someone comes up and stand beside you 🤡

David · Answer

even if you can't find someone to help with a particular issue, find people who actually care about you. remind yourself that it's not all bleak and sad to rally yourself to fix whatever problem it is. that can be pets, friends or family. or other things. and if you don't have anyone around you that actually cares about you... add that to the list of things to fix as soon as your in a decent headspace for it. because life is so much easier to bear then.

Andy · Answer

Usually laughter helps. Luckily there's a multitude of sources for that, I'm a fan of Conan O'Brien. And ultimately we need to go out and engage with our community. Do the little things. Say hi to people. Smile at people. Give grace when someone is having a bad day. It all snow balls into a more fulfilling existence.

Joshua · Answer

My suggestion is find a group of people in your same place in life. For example, if you're going through serious depression, finding a depression support group, or AA if you are struggling with alcohol. Finding people who have been or are where you are shows you you're never alone; someone has been where you are, and survived, and even thrived.

Harrison · Answer

First I accept loneliness, sometimes life is that way; I find a book, do some art, do something productive. Then I go out, find stuff to do, try new things and interact with people even if it isn’t on a personal level.

Fernando · Answer

Hola

Dan · Answer

Sadly, I am alone.  I have a weight on my shoulders.  I have people that depend on me, but I don't feel like I have any support from anyone.  I ride a motorcycle, sometimes dangerously.  Part of me escapes everything when I do, another part of me wants to push it to see how close I can tempt fate.

Its not so much as even being completely alone.  But being with someone and still feeling that way.  You can still feel alone with someone because there's no spark..  That can be just as bad because now you're not only lying to yourself, but them too.

Finding that spark, that FIRE between two people is much better if its kindled to be that flame than just finding it and having it burn out quickly.  And losing the warmth of it altogether...  thats what creates the cold chill of being alone.

Omar · Answer

Wouldn’t another way to ask this question be.

What makes you feel lonely?

Coming from a person who feels it a lot and has time to think about. Loneliness is the end result, it’s the effect not the cause. 
Whether it’s the lack of communication, lack of a safe space, no one to trust or open up. Something has caused you to feel lonely. 
Now I wish I could say once you figure that out, you would be able to find a way to fix it but it’s not that easy but it’s a first step at fighting it.

Jonathan · Answer

Cuando llega esa soledad es lo mejor que te puede pasar porque enpiezas a conocerte más, a disfrutar más de tus cosas, de hacer todo aquello que pensabas que solo se hace acompañado.

Daniel · Answer

Hoy en día estamos más solos que nunca, dependemos mucho de la interacción digital y ya se nos está olvidando socializar. Todo es tan banal y superficial que mucho sentimos lo que describes

León · Answer

¿Más personas como yo? No me aguanto yo mismo a veces como para encontrarme con más.
La soledad sirve para algo más que para buscar compañía.
Que manía con verlo como algo negativo.

Dave · Answer

Tu vas trouver ça drôle… ou triste.
Quand je me sens seul, je m’isole encore plus, j’essaie de disparaître, même pour moi.

Je suis le genre de personne qui va tout envoyer promener, et partir brûler un ou deux réservoirs d’essence pour faire défiler le temps avec les lignes tracées sur la route qui s’écoule sous son véhicule.

Je ne parle pas de petites balades. Je parle de grands tours de région qui durent toute une journée.. d’aller-retours loins… tout pour être aussi inaccessible à tout le monde que tout le monde l’est pour moi.

Quand quelqu’un est présent pour moi, comme en ce moment, je me sens épanoui et vivant.. ce besoin de fuir s’estompe sous mon désir de connexion assouvi, ma présence s’ancre et je me stabilise.

Whitney · Answer

I struggle, that's what I do. I try to find friends, though I've lost the knack for that it seems. So I find temporary solace in my hobbies, or in meditation, or in just plain work.

Rashad · Answer

I think considering therapy or self help books. I get lonely but I also think I’m at state of constant rush. Like I just need to slow my thoughts down. It just feels like there is so much and never enough time.

Moses · Answer

Very off topic but i have to say Your eyes hold the endless possibilities that lures me close in a trance while your smile captivates me with such warmth leaving me intoxicated wanting more if you would like to chat sometime lmk and dm me 😀

Benjiggity · Answer

I eat alot of food and it makes me less lonely

Rob · Answer

I can hop a flight and be there in a few hours...

No seriously. What can we do to help?

Just wondering when you feel alone what helps?

Dating Community

Awwww I was commenting on this same scenario before. It’s hard as a lot of the time I do feel alone. I don’t want you feeling that isolated either, if you ever want to chat, feel free to message me

Write music. Call your Mother. Get a dog.

Wue bonitas palabras 🫂✨ no todos se toman una parte para poner algo así de lindo 🙌🏻

name of Jesus

Im in this exact same boat as of late. Feeling very lonely

Just put some Sepultura on and go run

too old to talk

I usually play a game or watch some videos to take my mind away from the thoughts. I don't know about where you live, but where I live we have phone services that people can call to talk to someone when they feel down. Maybe try joining a community group or similar?

Wenn icv mit jemanden sprechen möchte ist mein Ansprechpartner mein Onkel err ist mein bester Freund und wen ich null Bock auf jemanden Han ist alk mein Begleiter und ja es hilft mir .

A mi me ayuda rezar. Si lo estoy pasando mal o no se por donde tirar, rezar y hablar con Dios me ayuda a encontrar la fuerza para superar los obstaculos que se me pongan delante.

😍

Diosito me ayuda

I think the only solution to loneliness is to get with positive influences who don't make you feel alone.

Se ti senta sola puoi parlare con noi qui sull'app, tutti a volte ci sentiamo soli e abbiamo bisogno di una mano ^^

Kind words... but why 🤔? Self love and self care have served me through this horrid loneliness, but if I let my guard down that's when I get hurt. Nice try. Aquarius huh... Now I know what to be cautious of, at least you're not a Virgo...

What I do is go for a hike with a good friend. Just talk. After sit out side and listen to music.

Remembering why I choose to be alone. I step out my bubble forgetting why I had it in the first place and then the veil drops.when your the only one that chooses brake away from the herd all you can do is watch until someone comes up and stand beside you 🤡

First I accept loneliness, sometimes life is that way; I find a book, do some art, do something productive. Then I go out, find stuff to do, try new things and interact with people even if it isn’t on a personal level.

Hola

Cuando llega esa soledad es lo mejor que te puede pasar porque enpiezas a conocerte más, a disfrutar más de tus cosas, de hacer todo aquello que pensabas que solo se hace acompañado.

Hoy en día estamos más solos que nunca, dependemos mucho de la interacción digital y ya se nos está olvidando socializar. Todo es tan banal y superficial que mucho sentimos lo que describes

¿Más personas como yo? No me aguanto yo mismo a veces como para encontrarme con más. La soledad sirve para algo más que para buscar compañía. Que manía con verlo como algo negativo.

I struggle, that's what I do. I try to find friends, though I've lost the knack for that it seems. So I find temporary solace in my hobbies, or in meditation, or in just plain work.

I think considering therapy or self help books. I get lonely but I also think I’m at state of constant rush. Like I just need to slow my thoughts down. It just feels like there is so much and never enough time.

Very off topic but i have to say Your eyes hold the endless possibilities that lures me close in a trance while your smile captivates me with such warmth leaving me intoxicated wanting more if you would like to chat sometime lmk and dm me 😀

I eat alot of food and it makes me less lonely

I can hop a flight and be there in a few hours... No seriously. What can we do to help?

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