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Taanaay

16d

ESTP
Leo
Modern dating

Are dating apps the only way to meet new people now or traditional way of approaching someone out in public, you find attractive, still works nowadays? (if so have you been approached yet) πŸ€”

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Aaron

16d

ENTP
Leo

9w1

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Dating apps are much less stressful for the average person, but also lack the interpersonal connections before a date can be setup. Approaching someone in public can be a lot, because there's so much nonverbal communication to start with before even approaching another person. Then people might have a fear of rejection, might be socially anxious, whatever it is that prevents them from actually walking up and saying hi

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Taanaay

16d

ESTP
Leo

Yea but that even built up the confidence in people. Social anxiety is a rising issue now. To be very honest, both dating apps and meeting people in real have their own benefits.

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Aaron

16d

ENTP
Leo

9w1

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@Taanaay I prefer real meetings because I always know I'll appear more confident than I feel and it puts people off. Confidence can be tricky though, because too much is cocky/narcissistic.

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Taanaay

16d

ESTP
Leo

@Aaron Ngl it even eliminates the cat fish part. Cause nowadays with filters, a person looks different in real sometimes.

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Aaron

16d

ENTP
Leo

9w1

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@Taanaay Unfortunately the dating culture perpetuated by apps is very vain, because it has to be. More attractive = more attention, can't hate the player only the game. And the game makes it super easy to play. But it's very confusing to meet someone in real life and have expectations shattered on appearance. Obviously physical attraction isn't everything, but it does start out with a lie, which is already a breach of trust for someone that is trying to seriously date.

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Taanaay

16d

ESTP
Leo

@Aaron This "more attractive" part is one the reason why people suffer less confidence in real life. Just because they come up in dating apps and don't get enough matches they sum up to the fact that they aren't attractive enough. Earlier when dating apps didn't existed people had a very small circle to choose from. Unlike now. For the appearance part, a negative start always puts a dent to the first meet, cause your expectations weren't met. You like people in dating apps based on how they look.

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Nena

16d

INFJ
Scorpio

7w8

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I prefer to stay at home, the only way I can meet people is grocery store. So, yeah, dating apps are more convenient

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Alexandria

15d

INTJ
Gemini

4w5

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I'd much rather meet someone online these days. Not only do dating profiles have everything "first impression" wise laid out for you, but people in public sometimes just wanna be left alone. It's dangerous out here, you don't know what you're going to come across in the public so it's safer to just attract matching energy. It's all a matter of consent.

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