Posted Thursday, January 8, 2026
1mo
INTJ
Leo
...people would just use the decline button on match requests rather than leaving them open indefinitely. I thought your profile looked interesting enough to start a chat, but you see something on mine that turns you away? That's fair! Not everyone gels with everybody else and that's a blessing, actually. I'm a difficult person in a complicated situation (spoiler: everyone is to some degree), and I understand if you don't want to put up with that, no matter whether as a friend or date. More power to you. Just do the kind thing and say 'no'. It's just two clicks away. Now I feel weirdly better. 😊
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Ron
1mo
ESTJ
Sagittarius
I can understand your frustration. Wouldn't this be a suggestion to the # boo channel, for development team since, this is a functional feature request? Make more sense for the boo team to just make repercussions for such, like a timer, and they HAVE. If you for example, on the guy side, have 5 open likes, and "waiting on response" requests, boo actually gates you from responding to others when you have 5 pending requests usually.. I wasn't aware of that. Were you? There's a reason people only look at the message then delete so they can get around it.
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