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Orchid

1 month ago

INFJ
Taurus

6w5

6

5

Just a curious thought.

What would you do if your partner complains about taking you out so you guys dont go out as much but goes out all the time with their friends/family? I'll shut down. Obviously he dgaf about you and the relationship. Actions speak louder than words.

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Marcie

1 month ago

INFJ
Leo

6w5

6

5

I would have to say something. Either you don't go out much with anyone or we all go out. Keep that same energy! If I bring it up and nothing changes then at least I tried. Time to look for someone who wants to spend time with me.✌

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Orchid

1 month ago

INFJ
Taurus

6w5

6

5

✔️

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Jeff

1 month ago

ESTP
Pisces

8w7

8

7

It depends. I did this in my last relationship but that was because everywhere I went with my ex she complained about everything. And even got to the point my friends didn't want to hang out with me anymore.

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Jeff

1 month ago

ESTP
Pisces

8w7

8

7

Hell even random strangers didn't want to hang out in local events they would always be "what's wrong with her"

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Marcie

1 month ago

INFJ
Leo

6w5

6

5

Been there with my ex. He never seemed to have a good time or wanted to rush and leave when we went places together. I'd invite him to hang out with my friends and he'd usually decline. Then has the nerve to say his life is boring and he never gets to do anything..😒

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Jeff

1 month ago

ESTP
Pisces

8w7

8

7

Mine didn't want to make friends. So ya..... I always tried to make the best of every situation

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Collins

1 month ago

ENFJ
Capricorn

You might as well sit he or she down and have a conversation about that. Don't let it hang-over you guys for too long or it might lead to an even greater problem in the relationship In the long run

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Joshua

1 month ago

INFP
Virgo

Yeah I've been through that. Turns out that when she would "go out" she was actually going to cheat on me. Can't trust anyone anymore. 😞

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Orchid

1 month ago

INFJ
Taurus

6w5

6

5

😨

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TheAristocrat

1 month ago

INTJ
Aquarius

5w4

5

4

Do they spend plenty of time with you but don't go out? It could be an introvert thing. Assuming the two people are living together or may as well be, they may see you as home now and their safe place to recharge while going out with others is a chore or responsibility they have to do out of courtesy to maintain social circles. Either way talking to them is the first step. Figure out the issue. If it's not an introvert dilemma and they're extroverted then let them know what you need, if nothing changes let them know it's a necessity and things cant work out that way. If still nothing changes, then you can end it guilt free knowing you tried.

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Michael

1 month ago

ISTJ
Leo

8w9

8

9

If they're complaining about spending time with you, maybe you should find someone else to be with.

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Midori

1 month ago

ENTP
Cancer

7w8

7

8

I understand the importance of keeping family present, and he can take you too, but if hes putting his friends over you there’s a problem. I feel like thats bad.

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Gary

1 month ago

INFJ
Aquarius

2w1

2

1

I had a similar experience. I was trapped with my ex's family. My ex never wanted to move out of her mother's apartment. I wanted to have a place of my own. To be king and queen of our castle...you know what I mean. In the end, the relationship between my ex and her family were so strained, she broke it off with me. In the end she chose her family over me. Actions speak louder than words. If your partner really loves you, there will be a compromise. If there was no compromise, you can kind of tell where his heart is.

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