🌕LunarLupis🐺

10mo

ISTJ

Scorpio

7

8

Both. Being single will tear one down if they want to be with someone, but if the person is strong enough a strength of being alone happens. They can learn to not be codependent and find stuff about themselves that wasn't found while being with someone cuz that someone is who they try to make happy by finding out more about that person than about themselves. Knowing what standards are right and enforcing the will power to stick with those standards also happens by being single. Trying out new styles until that one style that defines them is found. Hobbies as well can be found that can only happen by being single cuz it's themselves they are having to think of only. Not someone else. Being in a relationship that someone wants to have work out causes that person to be more observant and alert to body language over spoken words. The insignificant signs that can only be seen when with someone. They can also learn new things in life or skills from the person they are with. They also learn how deep their hearts can fall and how they become as well. If it's the right person the feeling of relaxation with that person can be obtained and a fluttering ttpe of happiness too that usually doesn't happen when single. In a bad relationship they can hone their skills in knowing the smallest red flag from that person to use for any other future bad relations that could possibly happen by watching the person they desire to date. Each side of the coin gives different life lessons, skills, and self discovery. Even if not all experiences was a happy one.