Deepti

Posted Tuesday, August 16, 2022

1y

INFJ

Scorpio

1

9

Cheating in relationships

I am a therapist and I am supposedly not allowed to judge anyone based on their actions. But I believe certain things are just white and black and no grey area in between. I have ex partner cheated on me. And that was a biggest turn off and I ended things immediately bcz of the fact that it is a huge disrespect for the one who has been loyal, committed, poured their heart and soul to the relationship to blossom. It's like mocking on your face and proving you were a fool to trust them all the way and that they could get away with it without even slightest hint to you! I have also had my own best friends who had cheated on their partners and cried infront of me with regrets after the event. I still have kept their secrets with me and will carry to the grave. But I personally think, whether you intentionally cheated to hurt someone or you did it by mistake due to your own traumas, cheating accounts for cheating! There is no excuse for it. Bcz disrespecting someone especially a partner who put their lives at stake revolving around you 24/7 doesn't simply deserve it. Plus disrespecting someone is not an etiquette at all. It shows the person have poor culture and upbringing. Same as a brat who misbehaves at a waiter in a restaurant, cheater is also a brat who misbehaves with their partner. Period!!!!