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Lexy
Posted Saturday, April 1, 2023
12mo
INFP
Aries
Dont get your panties in a knot!
So if the person you match with tells you 'im willing to talk and get to know you, but i am not ready for a relationship just yet cause i just broke up with my ex' and you start professing your feelings for that person, and that person just reminds you they enjoy your presence and conversations, but you're still not ready. Dont be such a baby and throw a tantrum about it and unmatch.. You were told from the get go, right? I mean, am i wrong that i told him im not ready? Then he goes off about being in the shadow of my ex and doesnt get a chance. Be honest, was i wrong to set boundaries from the beginning? Even my profile says it.. Im not looking for love, but if it comes, it comes. đ€Šââïž
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Sarah đŠđ
12mo
ISFJ
Aries
Clearly they are childish and you had a lucky escape. If he couldnât respect this one boundary he wouldnât have respected any of them đ€·đ»ââïž. If they couldnât listen and understand what your saying then you got a lucky escape he wasnât mature enough to handle you and your boundaries and you know what thatâs okay because one day when you are ready and your healed youâll find someone who does respect them and will care and listen to what you say and want and this time in your life will be a blip in the bigger picture that is life.
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Bryan
12mo
ENFP
Scorpio
I think you managed to avoid a person who was expecting you to validate their own feelings for you by you jumping into a relationship sooner than you was ready. I can also see how it's upsetting to hear , "I like you and want to get to know you, but I'm not over my ex." I think it's best you both moved on. Hopefully you'll soon heal from your past experience (when you are ready) and be emotionally available for the next person and they won't be childish because they didn't get their way. (edited)
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