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1mo

INFJ
Gemini

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Sooo I kinda wanna ask my work crush out . Low key scared but I wanna do it. Ladies, have you ever asked a guy out ? Fellas, do you like when women shoot their shot?

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Philipp

1mo

INTJ
Virgo

2w3

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Just do it, if you are both vibing, you should go for it. Maybe he is to scared to ask.

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G

1mo

INFJ
Gemini

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I hope he feels the same way. I think we vibe well. Good or bad, I’ll just be proud I even asked him. Ahhh! I think I’ll ask him Monday 💜

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Philipp

1mo

INTJ
Virgo

2w3

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@G i am lookimg forward to hearing what he said!

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G

1mo

INFJ
Gemini

8w7

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@Philipp I’ll let you know Monday after work (:

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Nate

1mo

INFJ
Sagittarius

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What's the worst that can happen 🤷‍♂️

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G

1mo

INFJ
Gemini

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Rejection. Buuut at the same time, rejection helps you grow right ?

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Nate

1mo

INFJ
Sagittarius

6w7

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@G you get rejected then what 🤷‍♂️? Move on with your life Live life with no regrets

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Jordan

1mo

ISTJ
Sagittarius

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I'd personally prefer a woman asking me out

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Dom

1mo

ISTJ
Scorpio

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Some men can be oblivious to when a woman likes them. If you like him then ask him

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Darren Nel

1mo

ISFP
Leo

Just go for it and be confident

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Jen

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ENFP
Sagittarius

2w1

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I did with my ex husband we lasted for 20yrs, it is either I like them so much or I don't like them much to ask them out. So that's fine

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Franklin

1mo

INFJ
Taurus

It would be much easier if my office crush did and then I wouldn't have to brainstorm and consult with my friends & family on how to approach her without the possibility of her feeling uncomfortable. Her dept. is also far from mine and unless I have business there then no reason for me to be in that part of the office. (I want to go to her workstation and talk while we're both on break ideally but feel that I haven't gotten to that stage yet with her without it feeling forced.) Last time we talked was Halloween. I learned she also liked anime & I told her she looked cute in her costume & she smiled, in hindsight that would have been a great opportunity to ask her if she wanted to get some boba or something. Unfortunately, lost my train of thought as we were interrupted to take group pics for Halloween. She's very shy and it doesn't help that she has a seemingly unfriendly resting facial expression. In my experience it's hard enough to talk to women you're attracted to & not make her feel uncomfortable when I'm also nervous as well it's at least 10x harder when it's in the workplace. Every moment I think, that's another second of inaction on my part & time is not on my side. However, being rash with one's decisions & not taking into consideration how she feels along with it being at work can lead to grave consequences. Oh did I forget to mention I overthink? One last thought, I dont mean this in a bad way but feel that women have it much easier when shooting their shot to the person she likes regardless what gender in the workplace as it's less anticipated & you can let your guard down while men are scrutinized with how they act towards the opposite sex especially with the current work setting landscape, this does not mean that it wasn't done without good reason on the contrary. Everyone should be comfortable while they're at work. For lack of a better term, men are imposed a handicap at least in regards to the aspect of seeking & forming personal relationships at work. First thing I looked up when I started crushing on my office crush? Read my company's policy on having personal relationships in the workplace. Found out my company allows it as long as it doesn't affect the workplace NEGATIVELY. It's the 21st century, yet double standards still exist unfortunately. When double standards cease to exist only then we will be on the path to true gender equality.

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Aaron

1mo

INTJ
Gemini

1w2

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Two points of view on this, first,yes men like it when you're honest, sometimes we can't even tell. Second, don't mess around at work it always fails

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