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Posted Thursday, July 28, 2022
1y
INFJ
Gemini
Dating Double Standards?
I've noticed on most dating sites that 90% of the time men are required to be the ones to seek the other party out and initiate/carry conversations. And I constantly see things like "don't be boring". And yet even on apps like Bumble; where women are required to be the ones performing said acts, it's still pretty much left up to the men. So I have a question. Why is it, in a world where gender norms are supposed to be challenged and are supposed to be dissappearing, that men aren't chased and pursued like we are expected to do for women? I'm all for 100% equality and I support feminism as well aaaaand can't stand what SCOTUS did (your body your choice!) but, how can we be equal if the effort expected of use males isn't matched? Legit inquiry here btw. Not trying to start anything, I just want insightful and honest answers. (edited)
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1y
INFP
Taurus
From personal experience, pursuit is sometimes seen as a permission to send inappropriate messages and if you try to clear up the confusion, you get called a horde of names. I'd rather have someone equally interested in a good conversation to understand each other instead of keeping a count or play games.
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