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Posted Monday, June 6, 2022
1y
INFP
Aquarius
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Holding hands....
A friend of mine who was a 'date' that didn't work for me offered me some advice based on his first and second date with me. He said that a guy likes to feel wanted which is true for women too. But his advice meant encroaching on a person's personal space from the outset. He said to grab a person's hand, get closer. All well and good if the other person is giving signals of wanting that. For me I did not feel that and tried to keep my distance but he still went to hold my hand and sit close to me. For me as an shy introvert, having someone do that is, for want of a better word, frightening. If I am not sure of a person I won't do those things. It is difficult for me to be so bold. Why should I give such signals if I'm not sure at the very least. I do understand how off-putting it is for someone to be held at arms length, but people have got to learn to wait for a short time even if they want to go further. Not everyone is confident and forward. Your thoughts very welcome.
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Nick G summed up most but not all options if how modern dating goes - if you like me - we should get physical. The problem with that stances is - the only outcome is a relationship based on physical interaction. Simply put - lust. And whist lust attracts whether it be wanting to know a person’s mindset or exploring the lines of a person’s body - it is love that is the glue that binds two souls together- and only time can grant that. Long story short - give to to those you wish to reap the benefit of the affection - time - time is the only community on this earth that you can’t get back and it means the world to those you get it freely to
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