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Jeremy R.

1 month ago

ENTJ
Leo
Friends

So I am putting this up here because I am truly curious on this. So along time ago I met a woman that I was physically attracted not during the best time of my life but I wanted to get to know her. Yes she had a boyfriend at the time. We became friends the boyfriend didnt like it obviously I tried to become his friend as well didnt work. Some may think there was another goal. Part of me wanted more but I accepted that it wasnt gonna be more and just enjoyed seeing her and talking to her. I never tried to kiss her and never touched her unless she wanted to touch me . And I was fine with it. Things happened in life and we became separated. So what do you think is it possible to be only friends between a man and a woman?

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Cassidy

1 month ago

ISTJ
Libra

6w5

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Yes. Absolutely. I have male friends that I would die for. The idea that opposite genders cant be friends is insane. If you are sexually attracted to a woman, you will not be able to be just her friend. Be friends with women you are not attracted to.

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Alex

1 month ago

ENFP
Scorpio

5w6

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My nana once told me “relationships are relationships.” And she explained that whether it’s with a partner, a friend, or an employer you have to be honest. If you love your job but hate the work environment you need to address it. If you have a close friend who sometimes makes really hurtful jokes you need to confront them. If you have a friend of the opposite sex and sexual feelings are making things hard, you need to talk about it.

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Kelly

1 month ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

She sounds like a wise woman.

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Chanté

1 month ago

INFP
Libra

She's brilliant and so are you for listening to her 💝

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Dominic

1 month ago

ENFP
Aquarius

I feel you can be friends and no romance. I have romantic feelings but came to terms that I was not supposed to be loved. Does not mean I can mot be the coolest friend around to both guys and girls though.

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Chanté

1 month ago

INFP
Libra

It's a massive red flag to not be able to have a platonic relationship with people because they're of a gender you're attracted to. Does that not seem weird to other people? Even if you're specifically attracted to a person, boundaries exist.

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Jeremy R.

1 month ago

ENTJ
Leo

Ya I am getting that as a general consensus. It's good to see that there are people that know that some people can be mature when around the other sex

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Kelly

1 month ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

It's different for every person/pair. Some can be friends, but some can't.

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Jeremy R.

1 month ago

ENTJ
Leo

I agree it depends on the person

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Ashley

1 month ago

ISFP
Virgo

4w5

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I’m speaking from an asexual heteroromantic (I only like cis guys) woman’s perspective. I have a guy friend who has been amazing to me in so many ways, probably often by accident, but he has also been my intentional hero on several occasions. When I first met him, it was so strange. I immediately felt that I could trust him and I felt at ease around him. (He was my assigned mentor at my old job.) While I did appreciate his looks, I was affected by him in a deeper way; it could possibly be a soul connection that we have. He did mention his wife and kids from day 1 of knowing him, and I respect that. (His little daughter is so adorable 🥹🥰.) Later, I discovered that he and I shared quite a bunch of common interests, including figure skating! It almost seemed too good to be true. But we got closer and continued to share interesting stories from our lives, fun jokes and memes (he’s an older millennial and is big on those horrible dad jokes 😂). We’d been through a lot together, and I truly treasure our friendship. I know it took him longer to grow closer to me than it took for me to (very uncharacteristically) latch onto him, practically. But now we’re great friends. I love him platonically; he means a lot to me. Also he has two wonderful cats 😻. So, purely platonic friendships between sexes that are attracted to each other do exist. I mean, think about bisexual/pansexual people who are attracted to anyone regardless of gender. Do you think they are incapable of having a genuinely platonic friendship with anyone?

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Jeremy R.

1 month ago

ENTJ
Leo

I didnt have a problem with it because honestly when you need to do real life there are people you will come in contact with that with that are attractive but showing restraint and not making everything sexual is a part of life. That's not to say that you cant urn for them if you are single

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