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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

Unpopular Opinion: You shouldn't be surprised if Ghosting happens in dating apps

Should you be expecting this instead? Or be prepared? I personally feel this is something you always expect when using these services and not take it personal.*

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Tracy

8mo

ISTP
Aries

8w7

8

7

Did you peep my first ever post on this app?? 👀🤔

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

I did not LOL🤣🤣🤣

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Tracy

8mo

ISTP
Aries

8w7

8

7

@🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀 Do iiiiiiit. Cause 😂

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

@Tracy I feel like this is gonna be good 🤣 gonna check this out

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Tracy

8mo

ISTP
Aries

8w7

8

7

@🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀 👀

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

@Tracy LMFAO GEEZUS

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

I knew you'd make a good TV host with that Ted Talk

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Tracy

8mo

ISTP
Aries

8w7

8

7

@🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀 😂😂 Figured you'd enjoy that.

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

@Tracy Swear two minds think alike

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Mich

8mo

INFJ
Cancer

4w5

4

5

@🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀 Link please!!! Edit: found it. https://soulverse.boo.world/universe/relationshipadvice/posts/E9Na11/stop_it_yall_a_rant

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Vishnupriya. K.P.

4mo

ENTP
Gemini

9w8

9

8

@Mich 😅Thanks needn't go search

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Robert

8mo

INTJ
Virgo

4w5

4

5

I definitely expected it and I'm not even on this site to date. I'm just trying to make some friends. Still happens.

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

This ^^^&

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Billy

8mo

INTP
Virgo

Just because you expect something doesn't mean it's right. Of course I blame the app designers over any perceived social obligation of app users. Ghosting is the natural end to the way a lot of the apps are set up

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

Right, which brings the question the above

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Robert

8mo

INTJ
Virgo

4w5

4

5

It is what it is. If somebody wants to leave and not talk to me anymore that's their right totally. No matter how they do it. Nobody owes me anything.

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Carli

8mo

ESTP
Taurus

8w7

8

7

The site is called boo for a reason 😛😛

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

Now you see me, now you don't

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Badet

8mo

ISTJ
Virgo

5w6

5

6

My mind is programmed to accept being ghosted and to ghost some people whom I don't like or I'm just not interested with them. This is a virtual world and it's full of uncertainties. Anything can happen. So think maturely and responsibly. We shouldn't owe someone our happiness and destiny even though we invested a lot of our time and emotions already. If you can find good experiences like true love or genuine friendships here which rarely happens then it's good, cherish it. If not, continue living your life and reaching your goals. Being ghosted may be painful and aweful for some but it is what it is.

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

Better to say it upfront before it gets to that point

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Badet

8mo

ISTJ
Virgo

5w6

5

6

@🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀 Yeah 👊😎

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Phi

8mo

ISFJ
Libra

6w5

6

5

I’m prepared but sometimes it’s very unfortunate, can’t help it

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

Of course!

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Elijah

8mo

ENFP
Gemini

7w6

7

6

I definitely feel like its something you should expect, and it's something that you shouldn't let affect you if it happens, people live different lives and you don't know what's going on the other side of the screen not to mention people's feelings are subject to change they might feel a way about you now but it could change later the same will probably happen to you this is a dating app things are ment to be kinda flighty and if you find a real relationship on here then congratulations that means you and your partner worked for it (sorry for the long rant)

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

Not a rant! Definitely good insight here on some of the reason why. 👌

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غΉΛZZI

8mo

INTJ
Taurus

2w1

2

1

Yeah, I don't expect much tbh. It's like watching a watermelon rot and when it's done rotting I go to the other watermelon and so on(of course I would eat it, just an example) 😭👍🏼 I'm not here to make friends nor date. Just showing da world what I'm thinking at the moment.

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

This is hilarious 😂 😃 😄🤣🤣🤣

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1

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غΉΛZZI

8mo

INTJ
Taurus

2w1

2

1

@🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀 You know what's more hilarious? Me waiting for my post to be replied... Wait that's sad... Damn... What am I doing with my life?

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

@غΉΛZZI Happens to all xD

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غΉΛZZI

8mo

INTJ
Taurus

2w1

2

1

@🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀 GGs😭👍🏼

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Brian

8mo

ENTP
Cancer

I expect no response, but ghosting shouldn't happen. If you're a decent human being you should let the other person know you're no longer interested. He'll better yet let them know why if there's a reason

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Kelly

8mo

ENFP
Sagittarius

When you say "let the other person know you're no longer interested" just curious does chatting a bit count as showing interest? Or do you mean if you've been having deep conversations and talking about dating?

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Brian

8mo

ENTP
Cancer

@Kelly I suppose both. I mean, I'm a guy that wears his heart on his sleeve most of the time, and it genuinely worries me when someone just disappears. I mean, if you take the time to talk to someone, if you're done say bye. It's rude as heck to just walk off if you're talking to someone face to face, why do it online?

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Steve

8mo

INTJ
Scorpio

Ghosting is a symptom of a self-centered society. Ghosting someone indicates that you did not respect the other person and did not take responsibility for continuing conversation. That is ok if the other person didn't earn your respect, but did you earn theirs? At least appreciate the fact that they are trying to converse and politely tell them you are ending the conversation, where are your manners? People forget the responsibility they have towards each other. Also, if you choose to ignore someone for a specific reason, although it is justified to stop a conversation, why not tell them the reason? Most times, ghosting happens because people are too lazy or feeling awkward to explain why they don't want to respond, and that means that the rude person you are talking to will remain rude because they have no input on their rudeness. You selfishly saving yourself from an awkward encounter just kicks the can down the road and degrades society as a whole. That's a lack of social responsibility again.

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Kelly

8mo

ENFP
Sagittarius

I think some people don't want to have a conversation of "well here's what I don't like about you" because maybe they think you're a good person and like you, but just not a good fit. Maybe an ex came back in their life. They also may not want to get into a discussion of why you don't vibe because some people argue with the specifics like you have a responsibility to give them another chance.

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Diana

8mo

INFP
Pisces

5w4

5

4

I don't think ghosting applies to short term personal relationships of any kind. If we trial ran a friendship and one of us didn't like it or it was too much mentally to upkeep, then I could care less that we stopped talking. I keep my friend group small and my loved ones group even smaller so I understand people that don't think I pass the bench mark for them 🤷🏻‍♀️ no one has any obligation to keep me in their life just because I like them

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Chris

8mo

ENFP
Aquarius

I’m not. I am surprised when I speak to someone for more than 3 days

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Mihaela

8mo

INTJ
Aries

1w9

1

9

The app is literally called Boo 👻

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🌀𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖍𝖔𝖓𝖞🌀

8mo

ENFP
Scorpio

2w3

2

3

LOOOOOL THIS

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0

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Angel

8mo

INFJ
Scorpio

4w5

4

5

admittedly, I agree... I hate to admit it but I've done this somewhat unintentionally. life happens~ whether it's health, family, or work stuff. is it courteous to let the other know? absolutely! but honestly sometimes i have days at work where I'm stupid busy then come home and pass put. i do try to get back to everyone but i am human that has adhd//generally forgetful outside of work. so should people expect this to always happen? of course not! but it should be noted that some people just have to live their lives. while dating may be important and all that, other should be a little more mindful if they chat with others that have a busy/involved life~ ask the right questions and appropriately determine if it is the right fit to move on. at least then there is some mutual awareness.

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Ryan

8mo

INTP
Cancer

9w8

9

8

Yeah I feel like people come here after a breakup and then bail after getting back with their ex a month later.

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Kelly

8mo

ENFP
Sagittarius

That's surprisingly common from what I've seen.

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Tony

8mo

ENFJ
Capricorn

Yes because people probably aren't paying for the services but that's why I leave number or email 😂 but of course it's always the other people's choice. I just be seeing it as a friend that may or may not text back 🤷‍♂️

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Jacob

8mo

INFP
Virgo

5w6

5

6

It's a pretty common thing. At least I hope, and it's not just me lol. But I prefer just talking and making friends here

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Valentin

8mo

INTJ
Pisces

1w9

1

9

Ghosting someone just shows you're too much of a coward to tell people what's wrong between them and you. And it's also a lack of empathy, not caring about the others feelings as long as it makes it easier for you. It's really a despicable thing.

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Juniper

8mo

ENFJ
Pisces

Most people aren't genuinely interested to get know someone online. They just like the idea enough to put themselves out there. Once someone acts interested in them, they'll flake because being direct with words is "too hard" on their comfort zone.

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