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Eden Spring

9mo

INFP
Taurus
How fat is too fat

I wont judge you for your preferences i just want some honest conversation. Id consider myself kind of chubby and can 100% understand if a man can't find me attractive because of it. I do personally want to change for the better and lose some weight. That being said, could you still love someone like me with some meat on their bones ;) lol

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Fanny

9mo

INFP
Cancer

1w2

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2

Oh Eden 💕 first of all ! Has anyone ever told you, that you look like Katy perry? You do and I think that's beautiful. Also as a chubby woman myself I can say that it doesn't matter as much as you think it does. It's about loving someone. If a guy loves you, then your weight won't stop him from doing so. And I promise there are enough guys being suckers for the extra weight.

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FDR

9mo

ENFP
Taurus

4w3

4

3

I told her that before you. 😤⚡

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Fanny

9mo

INFP
Cancer

1w2

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2

@FDR 😂 sorry ! Glad someone else saw it too tho

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IVY

1mo

ENFJ
Libra

6w5

6

5

And that's one period Fanny! 🥰 #maincharacterenergy

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Daniel

9mo

INTJ
Pisces

8w7

8

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There isn't a "too fat". I've been attracted to big girls before as well as skinny ones and normal ones, and I've been unnatracted to all three as well. Of course there are the health implications..but you sign up for the person as package deal, not for one thing and wanting to change them in another. Full acceptance or nothing at all, because it's not worth it trying to change others.

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Samael

9mo

INTJ
Leo

5w6

5

6

Honestly it depends on attitude. None likes a quitter, but the way you're talking you sound like a great investment with those eyes/drawing skills and what appears to be a decent personality at first glance, plenty of guys would already be lucky to have you, getting more fit is just stonks 📈👍

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Eden Spring

9mo

INFP
Taurus

Awww well that really made my night, thank you Samael :)

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Terrell

9mo

ENTJ
Aquarius

Of course. I love meat on them bones 😉

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IVY

1mo

ENFJ
Libra

6w5

6

5

Right, Skinny ain't always it haha 😛

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Eden Spring

9mo

INFP
Taurus

I also want to add how unattractive are stretch marks to you? Like discuss them from the light white ones to the deep red ones

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FDR

9mo

ENFP
Taurus

4w3

4

3

My brother is a gym trainer and only girls/ladies ask for stretch marks solution not a single guy ever asked. When i asked a lady she said she will feel ugly but honestly I actually don't have any hate for stretch marks.

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Wade

9mo

INTJ
Libra

Not a big deal

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Mary

8mo

INFP
Virgo

Stretch marks are beautiful ❤️ it's like a canvas, it tells a story of a human.

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FDR

9mo

ENFP
Taurus

4w3

4

3

When your waist is over 30 inches . It's my own standard for my own.

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Eden Spring

9mo

INFP
Taurus

Hey nothing wrong with having preferences dude

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FDR

9mo

ENFP
Taurus

4w3

4

3

@Eden Spring Actually i was saying that i have this standard for my own waist. When i go over it , i go to the gym.

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FDR

9mo

ENFP
Taurus

4w3

4

3

@Eden Spring Btw you are really beautiful . Your profile pic looks like Katy Perry.

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Eden Spring

9mo

INFP
Taurus

@FDR 😂 thanks

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FDR

9mo

ENFP
Taurus

4w3

4

3

@Eden Spring Eden from now on you are officially Katy Perry of boo community. 😎🤘🏼👌

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Kat

9mo

INTP
Cancer

4w5

4

5

30 inch waist is my goal 😂 I've got a long way to go

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FDR

9mo

ENFP
Taurus

4w3

4

3

@Kat May the force be with you

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Denis

9mo

INFP
Gemini

9w1

9

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@Kat I know the plight, when your waist is closer to 30” than to 28” 🤔 📏 🧮 ✅

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Kat

9mo

INTP
Cancer

4w5

4

5

@Denis Mine's closer to 40" than 30" 😂 but I'm working on it

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Denis

9mo

INFP
Gemini

9w1

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@Kat Oh pshaw. Goals are fine so long as you own what you have.

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Tim

9mo

INTJ
Taurus

Too fat would be when it affects your wellbeing. I don't have any issue with any body type but I do feel a certain.. mournful-Ness towards incredibly unhealthy weight

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Ct

9mo

INTJ
Aries

😄 I was 140kg and i thought like this... even more crule... i got in to 60kg... then i found it wasnt about weight.... It was the BELIEVE that women/men arent attract to x types/weights... then i i lived by that believe and i received the results... The word is MINDSET + hearT my friend🧩... I suggest if your going the weight way go FOR health and fun🧩🍎

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Dan

9mo

ENTP
Pisces

There are all sorts of men that are into all sizes of women. I know very small guys that are into very large women. It's a preference thing really and people's preferences are as unique as people's sizes. However, generally speaking, men like to be protectors. The feeling of being bigger in height and overall size from your girl gives us confidence and the feeling of purpose. It's a completely different feeling from being hugged by a woman and being hugged in a way you can tell the woman feels safe in your arms. If you are ok with dating men that also have some meat on their bones, you should be fine. But if you find fit/lean men sexy, most of them probably feel the same. America definitely has an obesity problem and it's unhealthy. The fact that you are self aware and hope to change that will open doors, versus a woman who is ok being obese, having poor diet habits and is rarely active. I prefer smaller framed women, but know women that gained weight during a pregnancy. I never found them less attractive and they lost that weight. Depression can temporarily affect weight as well. I've always been between 150-180 as an adult but had a year of depression I got up to 230. I was aware and lost most of it. Settled around 190. I wouldn't blame women for not finding me as attractive at 230 though, because I looked unhealthy.

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Allister

9mo

ENFJ
Virgo

I don't think there is one answer to this it really depends on the person and how well you carry the weight. I have seen some women that really pull off being heavier. And if the weight doesn't affect your lifestyle that is very cool. I like people who are strong and can keep up with my active lifestyle if there is some chub over that it's not a problem

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Beth

9mo

INTP
Libra

I am chubby and of course! You also look perfect so don't be so hard on yourself

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Ben

9mo

INTJ
Virgo

4w5

4

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Well there are a few factors to deal with. You have average, a little bit of pudge, curvy, chubby, thicc and then fat. I personally like average to curvy. Now if she's really tall, and she has a good personality and carries herself well, I can go up to chubby. I'm not a small guy by any means and I would consider myself a bit chubby/stocky and would only be interested in someone my size or smaller. I moderately active and I tend to match energy levels of a partner. So I tend to look for small than me in terms of figure because most girls are taller than me anyway.

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Mitch

9mo

INTJ
Aquarius

5w4

5

4

Speaking as a chubby person, what I mainly avoid in other chubby people is being jaded or negative. It may not seem like it but I'm highly observant of other people's social cues and feelings and it gets exhausting for me to be hanging out with someone who is super negative about themselves or life in general. When I'm with a girl... I see her looking at me to see it if I'm looking at other girls, making self-depreciating comments to fish for reassurance, seeing the look of defeat or jealousy in their face when some cute girl walks by or whatever... all that type of stuff. DEFINITELY not saying all chubby girls are like that, but I see that type stuff going on and can't help but feel that stress and uncomfortability. And I don't want to feel that way. I've done some soul searching and some reflection and I'm okay with being me. And I want to surround myself with that kind of energy, because these days I don't have much energy to go around for negative things and bad feelings. If someone gets uncomfortable or sad or whatever sometimes, I know it's not always easy and nobody is perfect, but if you can handle your negative emotions / feelings with grace and understanding and tact and you're working on stuff.. Then that's okay by me too.

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Andrew

9mo

INTJ
Pisces

9w8

9

8

I prefer bbw's or thick/chubby women over the athletic body, honestly; although that is just a preference. Granted, being overweight or obese is bad for your health and that says something about an individual. L I have bad eating habbits, but I'm active as I prefer to walk whenever I can. Since I've gotten older, I've slowly gained weight. When I was younger, 16-24, never really gained weight despite eating out like crazy- im talking a whole large pizza and sodas lol. What I'm trying to get at is appearances are an initial response to judge someone and with it the social stigmas. And these dating apps are all about appearances. Everyone has their own way of assessing someone as a potential mate. I know some people who only date someone if they have expensive clothing on, how they groom themselves, then their facial looks (which is bizarre to me). Some are about their smile or their voice. Like you said earlier, it's all about preferences. And some people do prefer the thicker. Some cultures are about that, i believe. The thicker the better or something. Status and all.

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Sunny

9mo

INTJ
Leo

I don't know Miss, for me it's not about fat or it's about fit. I love adventure sports and tourism, if someone is fit enough to do trekking with me or rafting. Or simple things like go cycling with me for hours, that's fit for me.

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