They couldn't takea hint if it was applied with a sledgehammer
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Lynne
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INTP
Gemini
Using ghosting in the narrow sense to only mean people I've met in person, only did it onetime. I brokethings off like I should. Then he persuaded menot to but then when I was alone I thought better of it and decided further conversation might pull me back in, as the attraction was still there. He kept trying for off and on for a year but it's not like he had noidea why. I had already explained. I just made the mistake of not sticking to my originaldecision. I felt bad about it but I didn't want to get wrapped up in a on again, off again cycle.
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Quia
1y
INFJ
Virgo
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I'm putting alot of work into a conversation, I don't want to hurt their feelings and I know some people don't take rejection well so I bounce
Constantly beingthe one having to hold the convo. They would constantly flake. And my favorite. Claims no one wants to wine and dine then. Even thoughive shown them ive made reservations. Only to cancel them.
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Posted Friday, March 25, 2022
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Ghosting
Okay, be real. Why did you ghost them?
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I didn't know what to say next and it felt so hard to keep leading the conversation.
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1y
8w7
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Probably just forgot they existed
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1y
I waited to long to text them back and now its awkward
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1y
Too much small talk from them.
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1y
6w7
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Boring, can’t hold conversation, too aggressive and impatient.
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1y
8w7
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She didn't seem interested at all.
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1y
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They couldn't take a hint if it was applied with a sledgehammer
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1y
Using ghosting in the narrow sense to only mean people I've met in person, only did it one time. I broke things off like I should. Then he persuaded me not to but then when I was alone I thought better of it and decided further conversation might pull me back in, as the attraction was still there. He kept trying for off and on for a year but it's not like he had no idea why. I had already explained. I just made the mistake of not sticking to my original decision. I felt bad about it but I didn't want to get wrapped up in a on again, off again cycle.
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1y
7w6
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I'm putting alot of work into a conversation, I don't want to hurt their feelings and I know some people don't take rejection well so I bounce
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1y
Interesting. If you're giving great convo, you don't think it hurts them or makes them feel rejected when it just stops?
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1y
Constantly being the one having to hold the convo. They would constantly flake. And my favorite. Claims no one wants to wine and dine then. Even though ive shown them ive made reservations. Only to cancel them.
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1y
I decided against starting another relationship
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I'm forgetful... only other time was they were to emotionally unstable and couldn't be reasoned with.
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